I need some suggestions. My best friend is in critical condition in a hospital due to covid. She lost her mom some days ago due to covid too… she was way too much attached to her…she now is in a critical state and wants to give up. Doctors say that her body is responding to few treatments but her mental agony, panic and hopelessness are also affecting her health. they say that she has to get out of the state to recover. I can’t meet her…she is critical… all I can do is WhatsApp her… what should I do to make her feel happy, hopeful and lively again?? What should I say to encourage her to live?? What should I do to bring her out?
She is all I have… I owe my life to her… my only friend… I don’t want to lose her… she is a wonderful soul…I can’t see her go like this… this is idiotic… what should I do??
Wanderer @wanderer_
Hey, firstly Take Deep Breaths
secondly, what you can do is just talk to her and be there for her, she just needs someone to cry and listen,
See, not gonna lie, she won’t be happy or lively for sometime and you know the reason why, but what you can do is just assure her that she will get better, she cannot give up because she has to fulfill the dreams discussed with her mother,
and just be there for her, listen to her, let her cry, talk to her about her mother, just let her cry her heart out, once she does that she will start to feel better
i am pretty sure she will recover, please let me know how she is
Wanderer @wanderer_
Also, Netflix and Amazon Prime has the option to watch movies together and she will be disinterested in those but try to get to watch the movies casue movies and tv shows works wonderfully in such situation
and dont you worry, she will recover, you won’t lose her
this is not idiotic
this is good, just let it all out, say it all
Don’t let your friend lose hope, call her , send her voice notes let her know how much she means to you.
Remind her about the good times you’ve spent and things you’ll do after she recovers.
I can’t imagine what your friend and you must be going through. Power to you. Don’t lose hope. And Pray
