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Anonymous

I need relationship advice… so there’s this boy I’ve been dating for about 3 weeks so far. Before we started dating, we we’re best friends and always had something to talk about. I’ll admit these past weeks with him we’re great and all except… lately we haven’t talked at all like 0%. We stopped talking to each other on Sunday morning and we haven’t talked since, we’re still together but even so we haven’t even said Hi to each other. I don’t know if he’s been busy or not because he has a younger brother and I’ve seen his brother go online but not him. I never text first because for me it just feels weird but before the Sunday morning, surprisingly I had to be the one who texted first and say Hey, hru? But he would just say good. Or when I said wyd? He would just say Nm or nothing. And he wouldn’t say how about you? and he would used to say it all the time. As far as I known from him, he’s been in other relationships that were kinds toxic, he would be with a girl for like 3 days and then be with another one the very next day. Which makes me doubt him… we’ve only called each other 3 times even when we were still just best friends we would just text. However, one of my friends is seeing his younger brother and it just so happened that when I went to visit her on Sunday night, she was in a call with his brother talking. I couldn’t help but ask her if I can hear the call as well to see if I could hear my boyfriend in the background, and she said yeah of course you can hear and put the call on speaker. While my friend was talking with his brother, my boyfriend was able to be heard from background noise. Neither his brother or him know that my friend knows me. So when they we’re still talking, his brother said something about “other girlfriend” to my boyfriend. And his response was something of “through discord.” I couldn’t quite hear correctly if his brother actually said “other girlfriend” but I do know it had the word girlfriend and that he said something about “through discord”. Now me and him have matching pfps on discord but I have this feeling he probably sent the same matching pfp to another girl and is matching with them too. Ever since I have him my phone number to talk in WhatsApp, I haven’t seen him gone online on discord at all, unless he’s using invisible mode… which I wouldn’t be surprised because he’s texted me on invisible mode before. But like I said, we haven’t talked since Sunday morning in any app. And on WhatsApp since he has his last seen available, his last seen status was the exact same time we last talked on that morning when we just said Good Morning to each other. I’m seriously lacking my trust in him and I’m not sure if I should say something or break up with him…? I love him, I really do but I’m not sure if he even feels the same way back. Btw we have never fought before either and idk if that’s normal as well? I really need help… because the truth is I don’t know what to do.

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Let me ask u something … What do u think will happen if u continue ur relationship with him?!

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Will.u be happy?!

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Anonymous

That’s the thing… I don’t know. I always said if your happy then I’m happy but now I’m starting to doubt what even is true happiness?

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Anonymous

Don’t be like that u need to value urself first … If u urself didn’t put first then who will… Being selfish is not all that bad… Love someone who loves u dearly… Don’t be stuck with things that makes u miserable … Okay ?🤟

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Sharath G @sharath3012

Don’t worry you’ll be fine… 🤟

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Anonymous

Thank you for making me feel better, I’ll be sure to take this in mind. :)

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Sharath G @sharath3012

No worries have a great day… Bye😁🤟

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Zenitsu⚡️ @selonophile_xd

Hey. From this passage i can able to know one thing. That your boyfriend is been in a relationship w yu just for temporary. Actually i guess i didnt take this relationship as serious and he just needed yu for a company for short period of time.
I know it may hurt yu but its the truth.

But never forget one thing;
Your love is precious✨️❤️. Save it and give it to a person who deserve it. Who cares you. Who stands with you.❤️

“Some people may come and go in our life. Just like the passing clouds.”

From my point of view. It just a infactuation. It will heal soon.

Stay strong. Its better to leave him…
Cuz it was turning as one sided

Dont worry everything will be fine✨️🤍

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Anonymous

Thank you very much for this, I was feeling quite unsure of my own emotions as well. But you just made me feel happy 😭❤️. It really does hurt… a lot but I will be sure to break up with him then even if it’ll hurt me. Thank you again. :)

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Zenitsu⚡️ @selonophile_xd

If that make yu feel happy i am glad🤍🌙. Yu said yu are not sure ur emotions right! Its okay!! Like we all are humans and we will make some mistakes. Thats alright!!!. What you have to do next is focus on other things and built yur carrer. I never said that yu dont fall in love again.
Just wait for the right person.✨️
Ill pray to god that yu will find this person soon🤍🌙

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Anonymous

Alright I’ll be sure to think of other things and hopefully find the right person soon. I also wish you the best with your life as well, thank you very much for your kind words and for taking the time to respond to me ☺️. May God bless you! 🙏

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

See one thing I’ll tell you… Just talk to him face to face not In text and ask him directly does he love and if you have anything which is making you doubt… Clear it

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Anonymous

Sadly I can’t see him face to face since we live far away from each other. So I’m not sure how to clear it up.

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

R u trying to say that it’s a long distance relationship? Have you met him once?

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Anonymous

I have, only once though and yes it’s long-distance.

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

How far you both stay?
And what does he feel about you means you believe him trust him that he loves you too?

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Anonymous

We’re like 7 hours away from each other. He always says I love you or that I’ll never lose him but I’m really starting to doubt that and don’t feel like I can trust him

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Anonymous

I would say that you live ur life and you love him but don’t keep more expectations from him that he should love you so much and he should be the way you want and all… The more you expect from him the more you hurt and ask him about future what he tells

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Anonymous

Well you know like seriously relationship is like this these days 🙂 people loosing interest and falling for the other. What i say is just yk don’t msg him anywhere for some time and don’t reply even if he texts you if he genuinely care about you then he’ll try to talk to you some or the other way

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Anonymous

Honestly I agree with you about relationships being doo doo these days. And I’ll take your advice for this because I’m tired of waiting for a notification from him to pop up.

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Abhijeet A.K @akabhi

Don’t let your ego comes like he should only text he should only call and all… If a person really loves then that person will call and text without keeping expectations from him

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Anonymous

doo doo loollll I learnt a new word 😂

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Anonymous

acchaaa uska kutta tommi aur saada kutta kutta aaise thodi hota h abijeet bro

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Sharath G @sharath3012

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