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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now and it’s a long distance relationship and we do not have any problem with the distance as I will move soon and he is patient so were doing good but in between we had a rough patch because I’m an insecure and anxious person so whenever he used to leave me on read for 2 days or not talk to me I used to tell him that he isn’t giving me attention and he was patient enough to deal with my insecurities. My boyfriend is like my bestfriend too I never want to lose him but one day he bursted out that he can’t with this drama and feels like I need a lot of attention and all he said he’s done and I was feeling helpful I knew it was my fault I said that I’m working on my insecurities and anxiety but he thought I’m changing for him. One thing my bf does impulsively is assuming without listening so we had this rough patch where I literally begged him to stay and atlast he said he’s willing to try for a week to see if it goes without any drama and I agreed so we throughout the next week we were all cool and normal I was breaking down inside wanting him to be affectionate towards me but I knew all this happened because of my anxiety and insecurities so I have to make it up to him so that one week went all good and I asked him what he wants after the week he said it’s going pretty good for him so he wants to continue and I was happy and relieved…I’ll write the next part in the next comment as the word limit will not permit to write it here please read the next comment too

So after that week everything became normal and we did not have any fight or bitter situation but the only point now is he is becoming very distant from me,he barely talks to me but yeah he talks nicely but still,as you know it’s a long distance. I feel insecure,anxious and breakdown every single day and I know it would be annoying if I talk about it to him,I understand his part too I’m not blaming him he says he’s got work and all and he’s not on his phone but he barely replies to me these days even when he’s online on whatsapp,snapchat and Instagram and I did not say a single word about this after we sorted our problem I don’t want to get him annoyed again so I keep things to myself now and please don’t think he’s a bad person,he is a nice person actually. His reluctant behavior is making me sad these days. A friend of mine talked to him normally recently and asked him if he is okay with the distance and all and how much he loves me and what he feels he said he is down to wait and he has no problem till I move and he is sure of me in long term then if he said these things to my friend then why can’t he behave like that. I don’t want to annoy him but I want him to give me attention in proper amount please help me

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