I need help. I am in a toxic-complicated ship. Me and this girl are not in a relationship. I really do love her and she like me but sometimes SHE SAID SHE LOVE ME. I am not in peace nor happiness but I do get happy sometimes but more or less it’s 60/40. In most situation/case she didn’t explain me things and only when I get upset or mad she explain but after couple of mins/hours. She would say I would be moody all the time but I really don’t want to. I just want to be explained and not being left out like some friends with benefits or one night stand. I really want to be loved, involved, cared, be in peace/happy. I don’t want to get yelled at, screamed at, want to be talked kindly/loving manner way, I don’t want to get hit either. What should I do? How should I get out? I tried to get out but it’s hard. 😔

Aren't you the one whose partner kisses random guys in the pubs?
Were we not clear the other day?
She is simply enjoying all the attention and pleasure she could get
You need to stop!

One Sided Love

I have this Internet best friend, we have known each other for 3 years. We got to know each other in a fandom that I had recently moved on from because I felt like it defined a horrible time in my life. We got into an argument because I was trying to cheer the mood up, being funny letting my inner chaos out into the texts and she didn't want to be cheered up and she needed to study. I acted totally out of line, simply saying bye and shutting my phone off. I like her, she was the first person I would text when it hit 3pm (timezones) and we would text paragraphs about our favourite series and about episodes etc. But now I purposefully avoid her for even a week because I just don't feel like texting or want her to text first. I am talking to her now but sometimes I feel like I don't want to do all this anymore, cut off and live on but she is my only friend and no one talks with me. It's bloody lonely. But then it feels like a massive weight. But then she has huge mental health issues and I don't want to end up being the toxic one that makes something happen to her. I don't want to be this nasty person that plays a victim. What the hell do I do? 

Lonely

When you have a breakup after 4.5 years you moved to a different country for her. How you managed to cope with that

Breakup

Guys... Help me... 
There's a girl with me... From last 8 months we r doing the same job... She always utter the line "I love you" Just like we r in a relationship.. Nd tends to be my girlfriend..like being Textfully clingy..like jealous a bit when I talk about other girls...But when I seriously ask about it.. She says she is not sure now.. That she loves me or not....Its really confusing... I m investing a lot of time on her... M I wasting my time?? 
what should I do?? 


Confusion

Should I break up for her since I can’t fix things.
Hi I’m a teenage girl who’s been dating a girl in these past months whose also one of my closest friend. We had a lot of bigger fight before but this fight changed it all. She’s been distancing from everyone including me the last week. And similarly I in the last week had really tough things and wasn’t feeling well, we last call on Tuesday this week because I wanted to check up on her, but my mouth slip so I say a few selfish things and accidentally curse at her. Because when she was having space that’s when tough things was happening with me and she wasn’t there for me. I was gathering my thought for a day and decided to apologize but when I did it was too late… she blocked me on every social media platform and I couldn’t reach out to call her and explains. To be honest I lost her trust awhile ago, and been trying my hardest to regain her trust. But this time I messed up really bad, is it immature and selfish of me to also be overwhelm and hurt too? I know she was alone during those times but I also went through stuff. And I needed her in the wrong time. Her birthday is coming up next month and we also planned a trip together. Now I’m not sure to do because I’m not sure if I want to continue this relationship. I keep hurting her the one I loved and the guilt and feelings I felt is swallowing me. I’m not sure what should I do. It’s like I love her so much to let go. I keep blaming myself because it’s really my fault. I envy her because she always had someone care about her. But I have no one except her. That’s why my mouth slipped.. but this time looks likes things won’t be the same. I tried to give the most genuine apology and she left me on seen and I got blocked.
What 
Should I do?

Conflict

I'm 22yo!
So if you all read my previous threads you will know my first  girl! But right now from 4 weeks I had been hitting on someone else! And I ended up sexting with her on 2nd day itself when things went the wild path, we both ended up in a deep conversation that turned to seduction! And we have been stitching fantasies and speaking it out to each other. Telling the truth I like the girl, but somewhere deep down its hurting, feeling like what if I'm doing wrong to her and its a rebound to the first girl's doing?
Should I end it, or keep it low or know her? I am not really a big fan of second one like when I look at her photos on Instagram, I don't find her to be anywhere really pretty, but screw my dark side, we set foot in wrong path getting attached the wrong way!  Please if you are reading this, sexting before dating someone is gross!! You will regret!! 


I don't know how to tell her now, I'm tied up to my false commitment in over excitement, how do I explain her all this? I don't know I can't block her, she is my batchmate! And moreover best friend of my friend, what would they think of me! I'm so fucked up and dead already!

I was in a relationship with a girl, later we sort of broke up. Later like about a month after she came back because something bad happened to her. I was considerate, helped her in everyway possible. But i wanted to know whether she loves me still or not. But she refuses to answer that saying she isn't in the position to think about all that stuff as of now. I understand her, but I don't have the capacity to handle such uncertainty i believe, I had this huge trauma thing happened to me in the past and I'm just unable to trust somebody. I don't want to be just other guy helping her. What should I do? I said this to her and she says she can't do anything about it, suggests that maybe  we should talking. What should I do now 

Breakup problem  
I hope you guys will understand my problem  So we were together 7 months .after that our breakup happen actually my partner father was no more , she told that she. Don’t want tk go beyond her father dream and she was not attracted to me anymore her closure statement was this . So we stopped talking .after a 3 month also i am still stuck i am crying sad everyday feeling depressed ever She will give me reply whatever i will ask to her after a breakup but not upfront she will message me .guys i need ur suggestions and help me I don’t want let her go she is world to me (i just text her know also but i am scared to say my emotion to her what i am going through after a breakup).pls it’s a request still i will text she will give reply but not how she used to be



Part 2 
So we got in relationship after one day i just ask her what about that other guy who proposed you before me and she said i accept his proposal i was shocked and got depressed in min after listing that then she said you said you like me it's not proposal at all so you didn't proposed me so then i said listen i love you ok she ask me again really i said yes i love you ♥️
Then she said it was lie i reject him she shared the screenshots and all 
The college were online again so we didn't get enough time to talk she was busy with work and i was free all day after lectures  
In 1st week she was really caring 
Like my friends and i we use to play football every Sunday so after the match i got some injury and swelling in my right foot 
I shared about that and then she became my mom 
She Gave me lectures for 20 min 😆 like don't play if get injured all time 
I said ok ok 
Then after 1-2 day she get busy  and she got new work the exams were about to start and she was making the question papers for college 
I just wanted to talk that's why whenever she texted me i gave quick reply after sometime i felt it's just me who is giving so much 
Cuz it was my 1st relationship with anyone and i don't know how it's feel and what to do 😅
So i started to give late reply like after 1 hr or 2hr 
At that time i do my own works 
It's ok to gave late reply but not too late right  so it's not always like i give her late reply 
College timeing was 7:30 to 1:00 for her and after that she do college work at home all day she have some health issues so she get headache and suffocating sometimes so i use to remind her for medicine all time after some day i was her let's hangout let's go on date she said ok I'll take leave from college but only in college timing 
That day it was exhausting cuz i asked her for date but i didn't have bike or Scotty to take her to the place we were going 
I asked almost everyone in my list and everyone Said no 🙂
At last I ask my friend who live on ground floor and she just ask me when you want 
And Said ok take it don't worry just wear helmet 
The respect for that man ♥️💯
 So we went on date i got ready took his scooty from parking and patrol pump , they i buy her an dark chocolate cuz she like dark chocolate 
I got near college where we gonna meet 
She was beutiful that day i saw her coming from distance and she came to me and whispered in my ears it's you right cuz i was wearing helmet 
We went place near me cuz it was safe place to go 
While we were riding she shared everything what's going on and started to share about the chairman daughter she is teacher too she shout on her without  any reason and then started to get angry 
I stop the Scotty in middle of rode and said listen it's ok what happen just leave it don't worry and gave her the dark chocolate i brought for her 
She started blushing and said it was not necessary 👉🏻👈🏻
 I said yes it is necessary 
It is our 1st date so it's ok no big deal 🤭
Then we reach to place and walking and sharing our things 
I took her to the restaurant but she said listen I'm not hungry don't waste your money 
Let's have the dark chocolate for now 
Things were going good then she asked me ok now let's go 
Drop me 
I said ok but we have more time she was getting calls from her mom so i agreed 
I dropped her but i don't wanted to say bye 🥺
I just hold her hand and ask her let go somewhere another time let's plan next date 
 Will continue tomorrow 
In part 3 🥱🥱




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