i need and advice about this one and it will be long…so uh i have a bestfriend and the like a few months later we found ourselves having like a group of friends…lets say 8 people were added and i notice that the new people and my bestfriend really get along like really…its like they clicked but they still talk to me as well and i really dont mind them being close to her…but you know…sometimes when that 8 people chats me its so different when they chat her like the energy and all and then most of the time when they chat me its either they want me to call with my bestfriend or just praising my bestfriend…in my face…most of the time so lets say everyday… I honestly dont mind it that much cuz my bestfriend deserves all that praise and other good stuff… but im also a person and i also crave for that kind of appreciation…cuz its feels nice…she always gets praise like that while im here…in the corner…just looking at how bright she is to them… They’re more concern to her as well…the day she was sick they always chat me saying that they miss her and them being worried and stuff like they can’t sleep when she’s not feeling good when she’s sad they rush to her and comfort her and make her happy…but when it comes to me…when i got sick all of them just said “feel better” and then they go back talking to her…vibing with her… when im sad they’ll just say “cheer up” you know the feeling like im glad they still care for me like that but at the same i feel like they were just forcefully doing that so they have a good image to my bestfriend…??..the day my bestfriend told us that she’s not gonna message anyone for a day cuz she needs to give time for herself…all of them were saying “no no dont leave” stuff like that and then they’re chatting me saying that they lost their energy cuz she’s not there with us…but when i did that they just said “okay byee” and then…gone…vanish…i just wanna feel appreciated…i dont want be jealous of my bestfriend but its hard not to you know… it hurts
look this may sound rude but I think you should try making new friends since eventually she will leave you. Maybe it just happened to me and that was how my friend was. She was my best friend for years and then she made like 5 new friends and hung out with them a lot and ignored me too and one day she just wrote me a letter and it said all the meanest things you have ever heard and she told me I cannot be friends with her friends and she told me to never talk to her again. This was all because I said to her that I didn’t like how she hung out with her other friends and never had time for me. Well I was heart broken and I actually cried a lot and the next day I was like a stranger to her. So please listen to my advice.
Hm… Be joyful yourself… Make some new freinds too.
