i.e. People do miss their ex which is okay as it shows our human side, but also to consider so as to not fall into abyss of always thinking about them everyday!!

It certainly does require a bit of background info like what caused the separation, who initiated, what stage of life you guys were in etc.

sure. I would appreciate if you can share your id..

You're certainly not alone but this shouldn't be the everything as well


i miss my ex

Breakup

Well I made a new friend online I have had bad experience with online ppl but I m giving one more chance he is elder to me doing PHD and he seems mature not like other guys I have dated but he doesn't tell much about him and I am the one who opens up about my life and he knows alot about me we have been talking on and off from July 2020..and today is my mom's bday 😊

Confusion

So, my parents fixed my marriage. I am not ready for it. I'm just 25!! I am not that old. The guy also agreed without even meeting me. And his family decided to meet me on a video call. So the boy won't be alone. How will I convey my message? How should I give him hints?

Marriage

Well there's a guy i had a crush on and i still do. He's really good looking and he's a good human too but it's just that he's not my type. I feel like he knows that i have a crush on him as i have made that obvious by acting shy in front of him and i think he likes me too. We both have not taken any steps yet.... We just talk casually through texts everyday. As I overthink a lot, i was thinking what if he does something like tells me his feelings...... What will I do ???? I don't want to hurt him but i have already given him hints of me having a crush on him and now if i reject him he will be hurt 
And most of all I don't even know if i am ready to be in a relationship. Sometimes I think of ghosting him but again I don't want to hurt him as in the start i was one who has given him so much attention and now ghosting him would really not be a good option.
I don't know if i like him or not because there are Times when i want to be with him and again there are Times when it feels so weird

Crush

Hello,

I hope someone out there is reading this…
I’m a girl in my 30’s who believes in love miracles and cliche kinds of stuff, though in a world like this it is crazy to hope true love and real people exist.

I just thought id share my mind out cos I couldn’t hold it in. It felt like I would burst if I did. You could say I should maybe rely on a family or friend or check out a therapist, but somehow none of it is feasible for me nor helped me.

Everybody knows 2020 is a worse part of everybody’s journey but somehow the brighter part of it was the guy I met through a dating portal. The day started with him and ended with him, We both had our fair share of mental stuff which we helped each other with.

After a file, he started going the distance and suddenly developed a fight scenario and suddenly cut contacts with me. I already have this fear of people leaving me throughout my life. And this incident only caused more damage to my mental health. I don’t know how to cope with this, not sure if I can recover from this. What do you think guys will I be able to recover from this?

Mental Health

can anyone help me in this please...
I have my exams in few days can't focus on studies for many reasons, but there is so much in plate to take, really having hard time. Now I am missing the person badly I last talk to 2 months ago, he was my friend, I always used to feel good after talking to him he is alike me, somewhere going through same, always nice to me and but am an introvert and get attached to the people I get good conversations with, so I took a break for like 1 and half months from that platform we used to talk on, for my studies as I got attached to him. I used to have his text, when I went there, few days back when I signed in I had no msg it hurt me idk why. I want to talk to him now, but messed up really. ugh... I don't want to be creep by texting him after so long suddenly, but can't get our conversations out of my head till today. I want to study and talk to him too as I really don't have friends. There is already so much going on...    

Friends

I fell in love and it's been the best decision of my life, stuff gets rocky sometimes but I love him more than I ever thought was possible. We're a few months away from a year. And I am so so excited. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, he pulled me out when I needed it. He's made me happy and I've become a better person because of him. I worry because we do fight a little more than we should. But being with him is so magical and amazing it feels so unreal. I want to marry this man. I want to continue to grow for him. Now and always. 

Boyfriend

I am in a long distance relationship from 6 years now. We're planning to marry but his parents are not agreeing to the fact that we're perfect for each other also they believe in caste like it's the only thing that matters to live in a society. Initially, my parents were also against our marriage but they understand my love for him but now the boy and his parents both agreeing to the fact that we should go for court marriage but I want to do it the Indian way. Not the levish one but atleast with all rituals.

I recently had a break up two days ago from a 5 year old relationship. He did for me because I was too much involved in that relationship and he wanted to set me free because he's struggling with his business and he didn't want me to ruin my good enjoying days. He said he wants to hold on the feeling of setting me free. I wasn't feeling any connectivity with him and I wasn't emotionally attached to him. Although we have decided that we will come back in the relationship again if it totally feels wrong because then we'll know that being together wasn't the problem for us. I miss him and after getting distant, now I realise that those problems were nothing in front of the understanding bond we shared. I don't know if my thoughts are right or wrong this time.

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