I miss my ex and I know that he is not good for me and his ego is veryyy big , do ex come back ??? I will always love him , where he is , aur whatever he does , he will have my heart because no one taught me to unlove him !! 

I don’t think this is appropriate. Don’t use another person just to get over someone

Can you differentiate ego from self respect? 

So you think ego is not bad at all? 🤔 

Firstly learn to put yourself forward than anything else in this world, learn to love urself so much that whether ur ex or anyone else give the same back to u or not, at the end u would have yourself and feel content and move forward in life

Breakup

I met a guy few months back , initially he asked me about my past relationship but I was not comfortable that time as I had just met him. Later after few months when I was sure about him then I told him about my past.

My past was very complicated. He was my college friend and after college, we moved to different cities and then there was this lockdown for 2 years and we were working from home . As we were from different caste so there was no possibility of us getting married in future as my family is very strict about it and we knew it from start so we decided to end it. But as he was my friend so even after break up sometimes we used to connect over call .

After 2 years of break up, coincidentally we were in the same city and we decided to catch up and honestly just for dinner.

When I told this new guy about my past relationship, he started digging in to it that why did I hide it initially. The only reason I hid it is , I was not comfortable and I feel that someone's relationship is very personal and can't share it until you trust someone.

He said that he can't trust me as I hid it from him and also when he got to know about that I met him recently for dinner and all, he started fighting with me and made our relationship so toxic that it is almost over. 

I love this guy so much and didn't hide my relationship intentionally. He is not trying to understand. I know that I didn't do any wrong with him and I have always been loyal to this guy and love him so much. I am not sure how to make him understand. Can someone please tell me what should I do. 

I am exhausted now, everyday I call him and try to make him understand. Its been a month now, everytime he just says that he can't trust me and can't continue.

What should I do, should I wait for him or should I move on?

Anxiety

 I am really feeling sulky today. My bestfriend's sister is in ICU. We are in long distance friendship. I can't even call him because of my strict parents. Idk how can I heal him !!! Can someone help me ? 

Friends

Why is it soo hard to move on.... He does not care about me anymore and i am here crying over him eventhough its been 6 months since he left.. He didnt even care to give me a closure... All those things we shared meant nothing to him

Hii!! 
My boyfriend and I dated for 1year 6months and 23days and then we broke up cause he told me that he was loosing feelings for me!! Whereas in the beginning he loved me more than I loved him, I always used to think that maybe I would loose feelings for him someday but he was the one who ended up loosing feelings for me!! We were actually classmates and 5years ago he dated one of my ex best friend and he loved her but she left him like he was never a reason to stay so I was there for him I used to console him and after few years he told me he loves me and I thought that maybe let's just give it a try!! I also thought that during his past he's been through a lot so I need to give him as much as love that I can and the plus point is I started catching feelings for him. I was in love for the very first time. I thought "Yessss he's the one for me, we're meant to be". I had seen my whole future with him but it ended up just in a blink of an eye!! I'm so hurt😔and also we were sexually active. All of the moments, the time we spent together, all pf the jokes, laughters, memories it just keeps flashing back in my mind. I miss him everyday, every second😔


My engagement got called off the evening of the engagement function at the venue. The man said no and walked away. He then came back later in the night apologising and requested a patch up. I gave him chance. He called it off again after fifteen days citing his family issues. He then came back again and for four months made me believe that he wants to stick to him commitment of marriage till one day when he started behaving badly and ghosted me without any word. 

My word shattered, I took a solo trip to blow the steam off. I hadn’t spoken to anyone during those two weeks worth trip. Didn’t respond to my friend’s who reached out for outings, and then checked up about my whereabouts as I didn’t know what I was doing. I was lost. Didn’t know where to go what to do. I was in dizzy state. I came back home and reached out to meet those friends. Told them that I needed some time off and shared my story with one of them who patiently heard me but after that they didn’t bother to check up on me even once if I was doing ok. Another friend was mad at me that I applied to her company without telling her. She stopped talking to me. I felt a weird vibe. Both of my closest friends have moved cities/countries and are getting married in a few months. I understand they must have gotten busy with work, preparation and life in general. But they abandoned me completely when I needed them the most. I even made plans to meet up, night out - no response. I quit my job during this time so have no career now. I quit a friend circle telegram group because everyone would make plans and not bother to ask me. I was also upset that no one really cared to do a simple basic checking up on me where it was clearly evident from my face that I am going through something major in life. Even after giving some people hints and to some people telling everything no one was there for me whereas I have given my heart and soul to my friends everytime. I also applied for 2 jobs in between this time, got offers and both were rolled back due to recession. 

I don’t have a job, or a partner of friends. I feel really really lonely. My soul is tired. I keep asking myself what have I done to deserve this? Why me? 

I went to a friend’s engagement party yesterday and left within half an hour as I got reminded of the evening where mine got called off. I got reminded that I could have been the girl dancing with the love of her life too. But I wasn’t. I cried the whole time on my way back home. 

I had been working on a job application for 2 months - cleared all rounds and got rejected in the last one. I had found a purpose in this job profile. Really wanted to do this. 


TL;DR
I suck. My life sucks. I’m rejected by all men. I failed at my career. I have no friends. 

Please help.

Depression

How to get over a guy who you have been friends with for a very long time? I am deeply on love with him and confessing is NOT an option

3am Thoughts

I love someones but that person is in love with my best friend and I'm supposed to help him find her a birthday gift. We are all very good friends and I love them both but it breaks my heart to know that he will never feel the same for me. I will still help since I don't want to ruine our friendship but it hurt so much and I feel horrible for thinking badly about my bestfriend. I mean it's no her fault she doesn't even know yet. I just wanted to put this out here I felt like I needed to tell my feelings to someone.

Frustration

I like a guy he is also more likely to like me back but he's confused that will he manage his work and social life together with me and I am an overthinker before he gives me an answer I already jump to one I want to be with him I told him I think you are fooling me but he said I wouldn't spoken to you after we met could have ghosted you but trust me I am confused and will let you know when I am ready with an answer. So guys help me come to an outcome I am panicking and restless thinking what if he ends up saying no ugh...

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