I met this guy in my college 5months ago… We started talking and I kinda liked him and fell for him over time and proposed him… He on the other hand, always says that he don’t love me… But he also shows gestures of care, love, kindness, respect and also is stuck in his past, I guess. Because whenever we talk, he would from nowhere, will always mention his ex, and one of his friend who’s a girl, who loves him too and that too since 3years.I don’t know, what should I do…I don’t know what’s inside him… if he doesn’t loves me, then why I always feel, that he does. And if genuinely doesn’t love me, then why don’t he let me go… or what should I do in such case… because this way I completely feel hanged. M not even sure, if he would ever love me, the way he used to love his ex… because according to him he has lost all his potention of loving someone or trusting someone. I feel so numb these days, thinking about the situation I’m in!
I’ll recommend you to move on, and focus on yourself more. If he loves you let him make the first move, if he doesn’t it’s better to leave it there.
Heeyy… he probably don’t want wanna let you go because it would hurt you I guess. And just give him time to recover himself from his past. I know it not easy for both of you but that’s the best thing you can do right now. Just be with him, make him comfortable and let him gain the trust. It’s all gonna be alright.
That’s what m doing past 5months and now, my inner self is just questioning my own worth… This situation always makes me question myself, if m not worth it… Or what’s there in those girls that he fell for them and couldn’t, in my case.
Heey girl! You are way more worth than you are thinking you are of. Of its questioning it, you should really end it. It’s going toxic for you. I know it’s gonna be hard. But princess sometimes it’s worth being selfish and thinking of ourselves.
Thanks for all those lovely words. That helped☺
It’s wasn’t just words. You are a princess and they dont fall. Okaay
Means alot 😔
Why are you sad? Wanna talk about it? Like on another platform or something. Always there to help you
Yeah… unfortunately have no friends to share things that’s going inside me at this moment… I just don’t know, how to deal this whole situation. Do connect, if possible… Just drop your ig handle or maybe a link to any other platform where I can connect with you!
Hey wanna talk it we can talk in a private space (means talking privately ) where you can tell me everything and it will be safe and I wanna help you