I met someone , we bonded very good, we started talking and sharing stuffs, and then one of my friend also started talking with her and now I’m kinda jealous that they are talking and she is spending much time with him instead of me. Every time I see a message pop up on my friends phone of her , I feel very uneasy and suffocated( i dont know how to explain what i feel at that moment ) I’ve been through this but going through all of this again is really taking a toll on my mental peace. What to do in this situation ???
Find someone else then 😅
It’s not easy to find people that easy with whom you bond 😅
Ikr but whats the sol
I dont know man , I just want to not feel this weird feeling :(
Let her do whatever she wants to do.
Maybe she likes his cmpny more as compare to you.
SHe has her own choice.
We can’t force to anybody.
True
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
Hey it’s OK to feel this way, you have the right to.
It is very hard to see your two friends hanging out with each more then with you. Have you tried talking to them about it?
If not why don’t take one of them aside (or both) and tell them how you feel. You guys should be able to have a well thought out, mature conversation. It’s great that two your friends are hanging out and it can be great if you could hang out with them as well.
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
But of course, don’t force them. It’s normal that they have a bond of their own as well. However if they are literally and intentionally excluding you then it could be a problem.
I have talked about this indirectly, and even I get included, sometimes I feel a third wheeler , though she says it’s nothing like that.
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
Maybe it isn’t, who knows?
Trust yourself and your friends if it is the case. Propose to hang out every one in a while and have a special bond with them, together and individually.
Remember, you’re the one who brought them together.
I like this idea of having a different bond , when we are together and individually , but how to supress the weird feeling that I’m goin through when I see them together or talkin ???
Not much we have really bonded very good and then I introduced her to one of my friend and now I’m feeling like a third wheeler, I can talk to her directly about this , but I’m scared that may be I’ll offend her and lose a good friend
Yeah I’m a guy, and No I don’t love her
Though I think of her as a very good friend
I guess you’ll laugh at my answer but I met with her in a trip few weeks back, and we bonded really good and shared a lots of our stories
I met with her on a trip
He went to trip too with me and thus I introduced him to her
Thanks to all, I talked with her directly and I guess everything is sorted now ✨
