


I met a guy through a dating app, he is divorced with a kid. he said considering he has a child and his ex-wife still being a part of his life, he can’t involve another person in this family dynamic and is only up for casual dating and I agreed to it. We started dating and I fell in love with him! I don’t know what to do anymore.. 
I love him but we don’t have a future, should I just stay away from him? 

Break up since he already told you he is casual about it

Girl!!! Just do what makes you happy..if you want to have a future with him,which he is not ready,so just prepare yourself and be with him till you want..then gradually move. 

Love

So, I met this guy through arrange marriage meeting and he made it clear that he didn't want to marry this year which was fair enough. i sort of felt comfortable so i thought to give it a shot. Belonging to a conservative family, we are not allowed to meet at least before Roka. However, we met once. The thing is he is outgoing and I'm introvert. Our likes are completely opposite. We didn't exchange numbers but we added each other on instagram. His parents said yes to my parents for this alliance. It was going all good at beginning. He asked me to meet again and i told him clearly about my family regulations. The thing is conversation with him is not stimulating, he said yes but there was lacking efforts from his side. Now, it's been more than a week and we are not talking to each other. I have sent him a message or two but he has left on seen. I don't know where is this thing leading to. The thing is if he has changed his mind i don't want him to be in my life then not even in instagram. What should I do?

Relationships

So, recently I figured out that there was no way that the person that I’m in love with has no chance of being interested in me. This looks complicated, but it is simple, especially for me. He is not interested. And then, I thought about ways to manipulate people around him, just to make him think a little more clearly. He already had a girlfriend, but as I stalked one of his friends with him, I learned that he uses her as a showoff prop. That may seem weird, and it kind of is. He wasn’t in love with her in the first place. So there might be a chance for me, right? Nope. This may be a never ending cycle. He has a lot of girls drooling all over him, when he decides to break up with one, he can quickly find another. All those good looking, cute, rich girls... I couldn’t be one of them. But I could pretend that I was one of them. Just like every other girl did. But then I thought, if he isn’t going to love me actually, wouldn’t all that effort go to waste? Considering that I’m quite ugly, and not rich enough to look *cute* with expensive stuff, and even if I was, still wouldn’t be as attractive, I accepted my fate. I am ugly. There is nothing else to do, other than not giving a shit about love. Really, I mean it. If you are lucky, guys are going to love you and if not, shame on you. This world is not fair, and it is neither my or his fault. So, at the end, I came to the conclusion that love itself isn’t meant for me. And somehow, it has nothing to do with a spesific person. Now, I know it. The next step is to actually acknowledge it and stop hoping that he will love me back one day. How can I make that proccess easier?

Should I call him or not. He told me that he feels really alone at night, I wanted to call him so he feels less alone but I am scared that it's a bad idea to call like that

Friends

Hello! My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. He told me he was not ready for a relationship (we have been together 8 months), he said he loved me but right now he had other things going on and he didnt want to hurt me. During this month I have thought a lot about us and I think I might have “idealized” our relationship and rushed him and pushed him.. he was not ready and clearly either was I.
I still care about him, I love him and I would like to have a second chance.. when we broke up I asked him if we could talk about us at the end of summer and we havent spoken since then; I’m afraid he might have changed his mind and I dont know what to do and I’m scared he has moved on. We have a common group of friends and I will be seeing him a lot and I’m worried I’ll never be ok. I know I will at some point but the idea of having screwed up this relationship is torturing me. 

Breakup

Today i realised that i should not be with my bf anymore cause he caused problems between me and my best friend of more than 6 years and i am never gonna forgive him for this but i need to breakup with him even though he is my world and i love him but this was the last straw now it's over between us for good 

So I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years now. at the beginning of the year my boyfriend had to leave for work for 6 months and while he was gone I met a guy and we totally hit it off and became really really good friends. Somewhere in those 6 months my bf and I took a break and me and the other guy started hanging out more and well one thing lead to another. So after the 6 months my bf comes back and we decided to work on things and we've been trying but I can't seem to leave the other guy. I like both of them soo much and I dont want to lose either of them and I know I'm being selfish and a terrible person but I just I love my boyfriend and I care so much about the other guy and ive tried to stop talking to the other guy bu it never goes through buy u I can't break up with my bf

Confusion

I am a complete mess. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend to an extent that I can do anything so that he would just talk to me or I could at least see him. We were in the same college and we dated for like more than a year and then he decided that he didn't want the relationship anymore. Then I decided not to talk to him ever again but a few days later he texted me to check on me, and I just poured out my heart in front of him. He obviously didn't care. He moved on even before our relationship ended. I got so desperate to see him and talk to him that I would just search for excuses to meet him and would go every where he could possibly be. One day while talking to him he just asked if we could have sex and I agreed because that is the only way he would meet me. So even after we broke up we would still meet up sometimes and have sex. Then our college ended and he went back to his place and I came back to mine. I still sometimes texted him because I wanted to talk to him, sometimes he would reply, sometimes he wouldn't. There were days when he would text me first but that was just when he needed my pictures and wanted to talk dirty. I was still fine with it because he at least texted. A few days ago we planned to meet up at the college to complete some formalities. We stayed in the same room. But he was still always busy, on his phone, calling up his friends and chatting with them and other times just meeting up other friends. I didn't mind it but he was never free for me, even though we stayed in the same room he would just talk to me or come close when he wanted sex and the other times he would just use his phone and earphones. I tried really hard to get his attention but somehow always failed. He has a lot of girls in his life and I am jealous because I couldn't even think of replacing him. I would still be okay with the fact that he has other girls in his life but he treats everyone else so much better than he treats me. He tells me that I am ugly and he makes me feel bad about myself. He even told me a few times quite clearly that the only importance I have in his life is because of the sex and that the day he gets someone else he wouldn't give a fuck about me. But still again I am madly in love with him, still desperate to just talk to him. He did make me feel bad about myself but he also did so many things to make me feel good. It's been more than a year since we broke up and I saw him yesterday, for the last time because I am sure he will find my replacement. But I can't stop thinking about him or stop loving him. I am so ruined. 

Insecurity

I don’t know how I really feel.I broke up from my bf 2 months ago and have waited for him to come back since the last day.I really love him and when I saw him after some times he couldn’t get his eyes of of me.I thought he was gonna talk to me again but that never happened.I don’t know why I am writing all these things here but I guess I’m desperate now 

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