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Anonymous

I met a guy on tinder 2 months ago . He’s 4 yrs older than me n so cute . We met after 1 month of chatting n calling. Our first date didn’t go as plan but I felt so happy around him . On 2nd date i went to his flat as I was having period cramps and we watched movie and I had my first kiss. On 3rd date he came to pick me up from my college which is 100 km ride. And we spent a night together it was amazing. And he’s so sweet. He wants a stable relationship and commitment as he’s shifting to different city so it won’t be easy. He’s so perfect, sometime I feel like he’s acting . How can someone be so understanding n good? I’m not sure about him I feel inferior around him he’s so handsome n he can find anyone beautiful .he was asking about my decision I don’t know what should I do .
I want to say yes but what if he finds someone beautiful there i won’t be able to handle myself .

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Mayank @true_who

Don’t feel such insecurity. U can have talk with him. He surely loved u way much so is having such commitment

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Anonymous

But it feels like we are going too fast. And how can he be so sure in such a short period of time .

zari💕🧚🏽‍♀️ @zari

What exactly is stopping you from being with him? It’s clear you both love yourselves and how long has this been going on ?

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He’s so smart n stable in his career and here I’m not anything. I’m just a avg looking girl , who’s unsure about everything

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And he’s asking me for 2 weeks that what I feel about commitment n all . Will I be okay if he moves in different city.

zari💕🧚🏽‍♀️ @zari

First of all you need to relax and not over think it … you’d break down, feel anxious and make decisions to please people and then regret it… secondly if you were not a beautiful and amazing person within and outside he might not have made a move so love yourself first and own that … thirdly it’s okay to be unsure about things and have speculations and be confused … it’s okay … no one is rushing you … it’s your heart and peace of mind at the end of the day … lastly you need to talk with him and tell him you feel it’s a bit too fast and and you’d want to be sure before entering into such a commitment if your intention is a long term one . Define your friendship and relationships be have similar understanding and agreement that this is what it is and what you want it to be … let him know it’s positive and he is doing great but still need more time … and please don’t make yourself feel or look average … you are worthy of happiness and peace.

Love , Zari🧚🏽‍♀️💓

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Anonymous

Thanks for the advice

zari💕🧚🏽‍♀️ @zari

Anytime love ❤️

zari💕🧚🏽‍♀️ @zari

Lmaoo what’s wrong?

Arpit Vyas @arpitvyas

Take Time dear , atleast 1 yr , Log jo dikhte hai vo hote nahi , pahchano Ki Kahi Eda ban Ke pedha to ni kha raha

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Anonymous

You were right…

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