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Anonymous

I met a guy on a dating app
All the time he keeps talking about how stingy he is, doesn’t have subscription of any ott, doesn’t go to theater to watch a movie, and keeps preaching me too that you should do the same.
I mean dude fine, you don’t wanna spend on such things, do what ever you want, don’t you dare tell mein how I should be spending my MO ne y.
He hasn’t bought a new ear phones in 5 yrs, it’s all wrapped up in tape, and he thinks he is going to impress a girl by saying all this.
Dude, he has an opinion about EVERYTHING, his thinking is like that whatever he says is the best, rest everyone is st u p id.

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Anonymous

Do you love him ?

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Anonymous

I don’t even like talking to him

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Anonymous

So why are you posting here? We all get such diff kinds of people everywhere. Don’t you think you’re just wasting your time by thinking about him lol.

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Anonymous

He keeps texting me and both my friends are busy these days, needed some place to vent
I can’t say all this to his face

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Anonymous

I am that guy

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Anonymous

Then please leave me alone
Don’t ever text me again, I m begging you

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Anonymous

I can’t i am buried in my own narcissism…

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Anonymous

Then keep up the good work, won’t acknowledge you anymore

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Does he live alone?

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Anonymous

Why?

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Because, if he lives alone that explains that he has his earphone strangled up and he has superiority complex

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Anonymous

He doesn’t live alone
Lives in joint family and he is rich, fyi

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Don’t say he is rich, that means he has money…rich human is rich in thoughts and has compassion.

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Ah shit! How long have u been talking?

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Anonymous

2-3 months
He wasn’t like this in beginning
Since last few days he has showed this side of his, which I don’t like at all

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Dekho! If it has been only few days give him some time to repent…if still this kind of things persist, get rid of him cuz you have made decisions too early

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

And why cant you tell to his facw? This is worst of human virtue, be clear in clearing your thoughts

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Anonymous

Because I have told him before 2-3 times, it had no affect on him

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Bcz later it might come in more intense manner where you wouldn’t have much of options

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Anonymous

I don’t think things will get much worse, I hardly reply him ever and we haven’t even met yet
Maybe he will take the hint I ain’t interested, and if he doesnt in next few days, I will tell him directly I m not interested

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

If your problems doesn’t have any effect on him, tht means he doesn’t care about this relationship!!, Bcz if he cared he would have talked and acted upon but nonetheless he is on and on with his ulterior goings, you gotta move out, life is too short staying in a place of foul smell

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Anonymous

Yeah, I don’t even want to be his friend, forget about dating

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Things get worse and it might be a condition that you might not wanna look at yourself in a negative self view for denying the once accepted love in an outright manner bur trust me you gotta make a move and that too quick. So that it doesn’t hinder your 3am.

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Anonymous

Yeah, got your point

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Dont spend even a single moment on a person who doesnt have same intensity

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Anonymous

💯

Ayush Priyam @ayush1122

Life is too short! Miss anonyme. Life is as your heart pleases.

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Anonymous

Yeah, of course

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Vamshi Goud @vamshi23

People who think they are perfect in all ways nd thinks others are so stupid…
Seems u met this kinda of guy

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Anonymous

Yesss
It’s so frustrating

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Vamshi Goud @vamshi23

It’s ok yarr
We can’t do anything about them,they won’t even listen to Anyone
Life makes us meet all kinds of people
And one personal question can i know which dating app ? Coz i wanna try

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Anonymous

B um b le

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Vamshi Goud @vamshi23

Hey
Thanks
I wanted to ask u
Can we have a conversation?

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Anonymous

No, sorry

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Vamshi Goud @vamshi23

That’s ok
Ur life ur wish
Just take care nd be happy

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Anonymous

Thank you
All the best wishes to you too 😊

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Anonymous

Lolllll

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Anonymous

There is nothing to laugh about in this
He pisses me off like nobody else does
Sometimes I feel like going to his house and slapping him real hard

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Anonymous

Block him…move on…you both sound like siblings

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Anonymous

Yeah, will block him soon

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Anonymous

I’ll come Back here when the overexcited crowd is gone…gn ladyyy

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Anonymous

I might be asleep by then
Byee
Gn

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Anonymous

Even I’m sleeping…most probably tommorow ig…ttyl

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Anonymous

Okay, bye

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Anonymous

oh god how did he learn to use a dating app?😂

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Anonymous

I don’t know dude
Is this they way to impress girls 😑

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Anonymous

primitive way may be who knows

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Anonymous

Now I know why he has so many ex

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Anonymous

lol he must be saying ex to all his old crushes, i dont think he ever have gotten laid

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Anonymous

Maybe, who knows
No one’s goona be with him with this attitude

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Anonymous

true

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Anonymous

Watching movies in theatre is awesome but hey don’t buy food inside , just don’t , don’t waste your mo ney there , it’s like total waste

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Anonymous

Point is not about going to theatre or not
The point is that who gave you the authority to make fun of things which I like, I don’t make fun of his stinginess

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Anonymous

Ask him all these questions, that would be better

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Anonymous

I don’t want to talk with him about anything
I m so done with him, we haven’t met yet, and I don’t think I will

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Black widow @shreya0208

I think the guy is setting the boundary or bar low…I mean if he shows that he spends alot and has cash flow then you would want him to spend on you. Now this is the trait of a cheap guy… so yeah just watch it for few days talk to him about this and if it still the same…leave him… tbh money is another love language so its important to have a proper financial understanding between partners.

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Anonymous

I have made up my mind, won’t date him

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Anonymous

Hiii , I would suggest you to make friends on different app it doesn’t need to be on dating app only, make here ,make on twit+#₹, make on inst#₹ , find your hobbies and same ppl u can go along , pls don’t waste your time talking to someone u dont like talking to or explain him the scenario, and be safe with your choice of friends as you are girl there are many ppl who will run behind , just do what you love girl :) don’t let this loneliness makes you empty , discover yourself ❤️

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Anonymous

Thank you for replying
We did have common interest, that’s why I right swiped him, but da MN hi turned out to be like this too soon
And all he does is talk about movies and keep saying that how can you cll yourself a movie buff if you haven’t watched this or that
I m telling you, the movies which he talks about, only he has watched those

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Anonymous

I’m sorry to say but your comment section turned out to be very weird 😅 just after knowing that you are girl

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Anonymous

Why do you think it’s weird??

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Anonymous

Oh god 😂😂😂 I read your reply , yeah I can understand but if he really sounds boring na just leave! Anyway guys on dating app are not that trustable! Not all but most of the , I’ve gone through empty phase in my life and I know how it feels but yeah if u have some hobbies I could tell u good place to connect with ppl with your interest and may be you may feel less lonely I’ve make so many ppl as friends so atleast I can talk

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Anonymous

Arey I mean ppl just wanted to connect with you without actually answering what should be the done in proper way , like having healthy discussion on issue is more important than having connect I guess that’s why I said , may be I’m wrong but it’s my person thought

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Anonymous

I used that app for 2-3 weeks during lockdown, connected with him on in s ta after that, then we lost touch
So 2-3 months back he again started talking to me, I will soon tell him I don’t like talking to him if he doesnt get the hint

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Anonymous

Oh, hehe

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Anonymous

Which movies ? Tell me about them na

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Anonymous

I don’t even bother remembering their name
We both like different genres too he only likes romantic movies, I did watch 2-3 movies he suggested, all were super boring, so now when he suggests I just say after 2-3 days that it was awesome

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Anonymous

Never do that 😂 don’t let dating app guys comes to ins ta because I think that’s our real space I toh blocked my family members because I don’t like it much I want my personal life as personal , and when u met ppl on some other app I don’t know how genuinely they are , I only took one person from this app to ins ta that too because she is pscychologist and I need her opinion in some issues

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Anonymous

If it’s underrated then let me know the names , i want some new collection

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Anonymous

I was going to delete the app and he seemed like a nice person so I added him, I regret it so much now

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Anonymous

Will check his msgs and let you know

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Anonymous

B umble app na ? It’s fine ya , dont worry ? Are you still feeling whatever u mentioned about your issue like the reason u downloaded and started talking like your friends are busy and all

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Anonymous

No no, they are busy that’s why I m venting here
I used bu m b le 1 yr back for 2-3 weeks, never again going to use dating app, just wanted to see how it is

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It’s so easy to Google unnderated romantic gem 😂 ppl are taking more interest in your match that you 😂😇🤪

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Anonymous

Lol, so true
I should give his contact no. To them, then they will know

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Anonymous

Accha that’s fine yar , same thing my friends are busy in a residency and they don’t have time to listen but when they are free they listen ,this app is way better for venting out

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Anonymous

I mean atleast better than dating app u don’t have to match 🤪🤣🤣🤣 for venting out and u can remain anonymous

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Yez 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for replying 🤭🤭
Now I can sleep at peace

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Anonymous

I am done with everything so just thought if i could get some new ones , sorry but not interested in any of it. Movies if you could help with i would be delighted 🤠

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Yes goodnight! 🤗 And yes more power to you if u someday want to remember how many ppl u can connect by just mentioning you are girl just see this post 🤣🤣🤣 and yeah u can reply to this comment if u want to start this conversation again chalo , now sleep and enjoy your time , and yeah btw which genre do u like ? If u don’t like romance

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Anonymous

I recently watched some k dramas and they were amazing i was dumbstruck like I never watched k drama pehele kabhi bhi

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🤣🤣🤣🤣
All genres except romance

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Anonymous

I have, in college

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Anonymous

You are exactly sounding like my friend idk why she also doesn’t like romance and I hope you are not mumbai? 😅

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She likes someone who is epitome of romance but not genre 🤦🏻‍♂️🤪

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Anonymous

Sounds exactly like me
What’s her na m e?

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Anonymous

Cant say 🤣 but what’s your first initial?

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Anonymous

N

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Anonymous

Okay okay fine you are not her idk why I feel paranoid sometimes when I talk because I feel she also use this app

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Actually she does !

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Anonymous

Yeah, I feel the same way
That’s why I use anon

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Anonymous

Same , but sometime when needs to connect na that time need to show id, like btw in which profession you are ? If you are done with your college may be u can learn something new

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I m in IT
I m usually busy with office work on weekdays only get time to relax on weekends so all that is cool

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That’s very good sector you know , you should learn something new If u are interested it will definitely help you to connect with ppl like it worked for me immensely like most important ppl in my life I connected due to hobbies we share and I learn , and yeah the person I love also I just found through it u can try it u Will definitely find the right person and right people and friends

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I hope so 😊
I m going to sleep now
It was nice talking to you ☺️☺️
Good night

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Anonymous

Goodnight 😇

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Anonymous

He’s way better than this stupid generation tbh , I love watching movies and everything but yeah cool bro .

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He is not cool
He is an a hole

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Anonymous

He isn’t better
He just thinks he is better than everyone

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Anonymous

Good for him less drama in his life

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