I met a girl online on Bumble, few days back and sheβs really nice. I havenβt been into any relationship since 2 years and I am getting good vibes with her. Though we havenβt met but we have met through a video call. I really liked her but as of now I am restricting myself not to be in a relationship because I will give more efforts to the relationship instead of my Work. The problem is, I keep waiting for her text just like I use to wait for my exβs texts back then. I am always thinking about her (Present one). I have moved on with my previous relationship but I am getting scared for my future because of commitment issues. I donβt want to rush but the fact is I canβt get her out of my head and focus more on work. Well she talks really nice and also flirts with me but when sheβs working and doesnβt text me it feels lonely. Is this good or bad? Also, I donβt want to lose her. What to do can anyone suggest me?
Expectations are always overrated. So thereβs no point expecting someone to stay with us forever. Stop overthinking and keep your mind calm. Love yourself and try to concentrate on the things that you prioritize. That makes you feel emotionally strong.
Two years love sabbatical, how many more years you are planning to remain in the same state of mind? Trust your Gut (I mean Heart) and move forward! Work/ study will be good if you are happy and you have someone to share your feelings π