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i messed up the relationship between my mom and i, and i don’t know how to fix things. i don’t think she’ll ever forgive me and that makes me feel so bad, my heart hurts right now. she’s basically all i’ve ever had and now she’s cut me out of her life.

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Hey what’s wrong man? Wanna share ?

Anonymous

i got mixed with the wrong crowd and started drinking, smoking, boys, basically everything my mom said i shouldn’t do and i was veeeeeeery disrespectful. she found out and yeah, cut me out like emotionally. she’s still there for me financially but other than that… i don’t think she loves me anymore, i dont blame her. i made her cry, something she never ever does. she was the one person i wanted to make proud but i disappointed her sm, that makes me not wanna live anymore bc what is the point. without her, i literally have no one

i

Heyy man it’s fine we’re still young we make mistakes but the point is we should learn from them so just stop drinking and going out with bad crowd for her sake and talk to her just give her a lil time so that she can trust you again I know it’s hard but she’s your mom so yeahh she will understand ❤️

Anonymous

Open up about your feelings to her , tell her how important she is . Apologise to her . At the end she is your mom and mothers have this big heart , they forgive even strangers you are toh still her son .
Talk to her everything will be alright.

Anonymous

no i don’t think it will be, i did all of those things. she’s so cold and distant now, idk how to reach out to her. she cannot even say i love you back so no, i don’t think it will be fine

Anonymous

What happened?

Anonymous

read first reply

hey, i have been there, i understand you

i did something similar and had the same consequences, it will get better, don’t lose hope, keep trying, you will feel nothing is working, but it will eventually, one day she will break and will be yours again, i promise

Anonymous

thank you so much for this, i really needed to hear this from someone who has experienced the same.
i will keep on trying and i will try to not lose hope

Much love 💝

Anonymous

hey hey hey, calm down please. she is YOUR MOTHER. somebody once said to me, “always remember your maa can never detach from you, anybody can but not your mother.” i ofc don’t know the severity of this situation but please trust me, you will make it outta here because i can sense how you are ready to admit your faults. and realization was probably the most needed step and you cleared it, toh celebrate how wise you are NOW.
keep yourself at her place, what would have you wanted from your child to forgive him? maybe a big positive change would help. think abt it. maybe the solution is within you.
don’t rush, calm down, relax, and know that you are too beautiful to stay trapped in this situation for too long. you will make it ouuta here, who knows very sooon.
who knows if its just your fear and brain that has drawn these scenarios in your head that are farrrr from reality.
try and try to get back to her, try as much as you can, because who knows MAYBE TOMORROW HAS A SURPRISE FOR YOU.