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I meet a guy in dating site (my friends recomend me bcz all my friends are eventually married have kids or they are dating) He was a polite guy i like him just for his behaviour, so we start talking and he delete his dating profile the next day he said i found what i m looking for but at that time I didn’t believe him it’s feels like so good to be truth bcz ( i have trust issues from my past relationship) i told him to take things slowly he said ok when you are ready,things going good then we meet ( we live 200km away ) and realised how nice he is in person like I didn’t even notice this on text or Phone calls the way he treat other people,kids, dogs. I fall for him that moment i knew it he’s the one…
Then happen problems he went to his hometown and his mom saw our pictures on his phone, his mom ask him he told the truth that i am his gf then his family is totally not ok with me being his gf but at that time he stands for me and leave his house for that day and didn’t speak to his family in calls i feel so bad after that i thought i m like in his life for 3- 4 months its not good not healthy…Then few days later his mom make threat calls like β€œi m gonna kill myself if you talk to that girl” so he said to his family that ok i m gonna leave that girl but he didnt leave me .

He continued to balance both side he told lies to his family and at some point i feel so fustrered when ever he goes to his hometown he totally vanished didn’t text me call me anything he also told me his mom is looking for girls and last time he told me he didn’t wanna marry anyone not even me bcz he don’t wanna disrespect his family and that he love me so he can’t marry another girl…
I was in mixed signals i don’t know what to do I can’t confront him i feel like he is pain so i just let this thing hang we don’t have a official relationship and i am not ok with this

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End this

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I told him to end this i even block him but he call from different number and said just talk to me as a friend

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Ya it is hurting me from my side i kinda ignore him from past few months he also know that but 2 days ago its my birthday he just travel this far just to give me a surprise so he is doing all this how can i say i m not gonna talk to you as a person i am gonna be horrible then

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