I made some jokes on my friend (we often do make a lot of jokes on eachother) and now she just don’t wanna talk to me… She told me she felt insulted and found me annoying and I apologised for both cause i dont wanna lose a friend like her… Does this mean I had taken our friendship for granted or its just my behaviour that I should really change…
Also when do you find someone annoying?
Mayank @true_who
Have u made joke on her publically
No no no it was just me and her on a phone call
Mayank @true_who
Okay. Then try to talk with her. Don’t worry a lot. It will be fine. Just say her what can I do to make things alright as before as I don’t wanna loose u
I did ask her and she told me nothing it’s fine just leave it and now she just don’t wanna talk to me
Mayank @true_who
Okay now u have 2 choices
1.give her time (few days) if u have patience
2. Surprise her beaurifully to repay ur fault
Okay… thanks a lot for the input
Mayank @true_who
Bro code man 👍
Sorry what?
Nyx @lost_not_found
Risky
Can you elaborate
Nyx @lost_not_found
People are sensitive…the audience which you might habe shared the joke in front of could have been upsetting. Ik you didnt mean it, you should let them know
It was in private like it was just me and her on a phone call
Nyx @lost_not_found
It could be a trigger then. For example I never say it to anyone but I hate being mocked about things that arent in control of me, like my anxiety or nervousness. Its okay though…they will calm down eventually
I hope everything gets back to normal 🤞 thanks for your time
Yes. U took her for granted , was in a similiar situation. I left that useless good for nothing group who where jealous of me in every way and am with another bunch of amazing ppl .
Is there any way I can make things better or back to normal
Apologise seriously
thatmentallyill... @alexiaxfairy
Depends what was said. “jokes” can be extremely harmful sometimes. But sometimes the “joke” is misunderstood. Either way since it was a 1-1 phone call I’m sure if you apologize and just give it some time everything will be alright (:
Thanks for the reply :)
