I m really feeling depressed. After sharing 11 yrs of relationship when we come to this stage let’s marry he said kundali gun milan is less than 18 so we can’t marry.
I really love him alot, can’t take this anymore.
Ridzi @sandman
Before loving anyone else, always love yourself first. If he loves you, he will come back, otherwise it’s his loss. Don’t give control of your life to someone else.
Right but what about my feelings
Ridzi @sandman
I can totally understand. It will take time but time heals everything.
It’s been 2 yrs and I can’t get over him. Time can’t heal, it’s just giving me hopes that one day he will come
Ridzi @sandman
It’s been 5 years for me. :')
What did u do?? How did u mangage, did u miss him still ?
Ridzi @sandman
Yes I miss him everyday, but now I just feel like he is a past of me and was a part of my life. I have accepted things as they are.
So are u married now
Ridzi @sandman
Nope.
If he will not marry me so I think in my whole life I will not be able to marry someone else further.
I’m sorrry but it’s the family pressure nothing else to not to marry you
Does really kundali Plays a important role if gun milan is less than 18
In Hindu culture is does play a very big part in it so yes …
So really if it’s less than 18 , we can’t marry each other.
See it’s just the excuses of not marrying you that’s it nothing else
I also think sometimes this but I can’t understand what’s the need to lie if he is not ready to marry. If he would have been said these things in front of me, I will cry , scream but more than that I can easily move on but now this situation is breaking me very badly and I can’t think of anything else.
See i know it would have being hurting & suffocating you but the things which is done, its done and dusted so it’s tough but you have pick yourself up from the ground coz you can’t be on the ground so just dare yourself to stand up and face it and move on coz the life has more things to be done rather then just be laying down on the ground for the one person so if need of anything help or something do connect any time.
I tried but I don’t know why it’s so difficult to move on
Coz you are still in the past and haven’t tried to move on from it that’s why
Ee still talk to each other for this issue
Are you serious you talk with him even now😅
Yes that’s is why i m getting depressed
Just stop talking and go have your life Miss or seriously you are gonna be more miserable then ever
I can’t stop myself to talk to him. It’s like I should kill myself if i don’t do this
See you have to take this bold as some point of life or else it will be too late…
Thanks but really it breaking me inside
I don’t think anyone knows this issue in our mutual friend.
Also if I will try so he will be angry that why are you bringing this in our friends
I am sorry about your situation …it is extremely difficult to completely let go but we got to start somewhere right ?..I think subconsciously you havent really accepted what has happened …you got to sit down with yourself and tell yourself that it is over and there is nothing you can do about it… once the reality hit i think you’d start making a conscious effort to move on
