I loved a person too much, and I still do with all my heart. We were having a beautiful relationship and then my overthinking ruined it. I will never recover from this. Ever since the breakup, I feel like there is no meaning to anything. He was not too expressive, he needed to focus on his career so he couldn’t give me much time and he told me in the beginning, I was an overthinker i told him in the beginning too, I needed reassurity all the time, and then he said he couldnt handle the responsibilities that comes with a relationship, he needs to focus on his career. I know I am being selfish if I ask him to priortize me sometimes too , it’s just, why is it that all my past relationships ended the same way? They couldnt deal with responsibilities, they needed to focus on their career. All I needed from him was to send me a text saying “He’ll be busy for few yours” before disappearing for 12 to 13 hour. Or that “He loves me” with text, he said he assured me 2 days ago only. Was I asking for too much? I gave my all this time as I thought maybe I didnt gave my enough in past, I pushed my limits but it still ended like this.
hardik vyas @hardikvyas
I think u should meet him in person and tell him that take some time I know I messed up
Everything thing and I realised my mistake Plse come back
He said, to stay in touch and be friends instead, he said he cant heal me and that he has failed a boyfriend. And I did asked him to stay, or that we can talk this through, but he insisted we stop now so it doesnt hurts much if we do breakup later. Now that I look back, he would always randomly bring up breakup and tell me to not get sad if it happens, I have never asked a guy to stay before, never begged before but I did this time, I am not sure what to make out of it. We’ll be meeting soon, but He seems too friendly when he msg me, as if he didnt hurt me, as if he is not hurt by breakup, I think I maintained my decorum as a friend well.
hardik vyas @hardikvyas
I think u should maintain friends decorum and leave everything on time and fate but always keep one thing in your mind and hurt don’t do anything in future which will hurt him and never lose hope because if he ever loved you he will come day today tomorrow in a month or a year or two year but he will if he ever loved you and
lastly take some time and think that you should move on from him or stay
I believe in a relationship you have the right to be prioritized. And didn’t he say he couldn’t take the responsibilities of a relationship? Sounds like he wasn’t ready. I think it wasn’t just you who broke your relationship
