I love him to bits but I always think what people would say if he spent more time with his girl buddies…I feel extremely insecure…amd some of his friends joke on him saying “we can’t get one girl…how are u getting these many girls” …orr" he is a player…if u leave himm""…like that makes me feel like and option or an obstacle…he assured me a million times that he loves me and nothing would ever keep us apart…but I have this voice in my adhd brain that keeps making me feel bad and overthink about it…like all I have in my life are issues and my head just seems to make them worse by distancing the only goodthing in my life him…we have been together for around 6 years now…he has fine a lot and more for me…but i just can’t stop overthinking…and fighting about it…please I need help…I guess…
I think it’s okay to have friends with opposite gender and it’s okay to you to feel insecured but it’s not okay if he can’t do anything for making you feel secured about him
He did make me feel secure…it’s just comes up at the back of my mind that I am not good enough
Saadi @beingme
Listen to ur vibes & intuition they never lie. If you feel insecure n possessive than confront him.
Try to distance urself from him n let’s see how he behaves.
If you really into u, he will feel it; otherwise he will drag away from u.
I did…and he pursued me for 3 weeks…repeatedly asking what’s wrong and how he could make it right…I told him it was my insecurities…he said…no one will be in ur place irrespective of the girls I talk to…
Saadi @beingme
Distance urself and when he ask the same Question;.
Ans that why he needs to talk to so many girls? Em I or my love and my devotion is not enough for you?
Ask him that how he will feel when u will do exactly what he is doing.
I feel maybe something happened in the past makes you feel soooo insecure. Just let go of it. Since your bf didn’t give you any reason to doubt his love, you shouldn’t overthink his acts and be happy with him. It’s good to hear that you’re together since 6 years❣️
