I love him, and we are bestfriends
Iāve been talking to this guy for some time, but feeling like Iāve known him for my whole life.
He is an ordinaryguy who got everything from me without trying. Everything means the feeling I could have toward him. I donāt know, it might be a crush that would have gone soon, or the permanat love that Iām trying to deny but FRIENDSHIP. I can see my future with him and could not imagine live without hime tomorrow. But, I know everything never be working. He has his dream girl who is of corse not me. I am one thing from him his bestfriend and no more than that. I know how I feel about him but Iām denying it to protect him. BEing his Bestfriend seems to be the best way I could do to at least keep him in my life. Sometimes, you can have someone in life, but not the position you would want to.
Am I stupid to do this that I call him ābestfriendā tho I want more than that?
From my point of view I think you are stupid.
You know that he is the only person who knows you better, who make you feel happy in any of you are sad then you should say him about that feeling you have.
If you will not say today the in future it will make you feel regret that you were having opportunity but you can able to express.
It wonāt effect your friendship if that person is enough mature and understands you emotionally.
It will effect your friendship if he is immature canāt have emotional
Itās my request and a suggestion that you should say him. It will make you feel better
Thank you. Iāve told him before and we are great friends to each another, but my feeling remains the same, but I hope iāll feel better soon.
Try a prank on him.
If he says no say its for youtube.
Thank you fpr your suggession! Itās really interesting but I donār have YT channel and he would know that if I make it up.
I understand how you feelā¦ Itās hard telling your the person how you feel because you donāt want to ruin your friendshipā¦ I suggest try to confess only if you want toā¦ If he doesnāt want to be friends anymore then you guys weāre never real friendsā¦ If you guys weāre real friendsā¦ He would understand how you feel and not make a big deal about itā¦
So I say give it a shot tell him how you feelā¦
Thank you for your kind suggession. Iāve alredy told him but not really cleary if i really told hime directly but I think he knows about that. However, we are great friends.