i lost my dad when i was 19. i saw his health deteriorate over time. i saw him suffer and die in front of me. after he left i was alone, part of me died that day. i still cry at night and wish he was here…
that event left me with some abandonment issues and depression. it feels like i dont wanna get out of my bed or do my chores. what can i do to get out of that moment?
Heyyy buddy, I am so sorry that happened. But you know, death doesnt have to be a sad thing. It can be a beautiful thing if you think about it. Your dad must have been in so much pain because of his health. He must have suffered so much. But then he was relieved of that pain!!! And think about it, no stress, no sadness, no frustration…I know it’s sad, I’m not justifying it. But your dad is in a MUCH MUCH MUCH better place right now. And he’s so happy. And I guarantee you he’s looking over you and I bet he hates seeing you upset. Ofcourse I understand, that things wont be the same again, but sweetie, you have to try adjusting to the new normal. Take your own sweet time, there’s no rush. But you need to accept the fact that your dad’s in a better place and that god has a plan for you. And you’ll go places. Be the strength of your mother and the rest of your family. Your dad wants to see you smile :)
Have faith <3
Hey, stay strong buddy!!! I’m so sorry for the loss which has happened to you. I know you’re too young for this. I could know how attached you were with your dad. Don’t worry buddy, you’re dad is with you. If he’s with you, seriously he doesn’t want you to be like this crying and sad and feeling depressed. Instead he wanted you to see growing becoming more mature and taking responsibilities and living your life to the full.
Just try to put yourself busy. Do let your tears down when you feel like. But remember you aren’t going to sit throughout the day crying. You gonna do something buddy.
I know this feeling so well I lost my dad when I was 17 and I miss him its been 3 years I know that the pain will never go you will miss him every day but by the time pass you will find happiness in other things like spending time with the ones you love I know this is easier said then done but it’s my experience I miss him like crazy but we can’t be weak because we have to be stronger for our moms and have to take care of them we are the only ones who can do that so be strong for your mom and the people you love.
