I lied to my parents about my grades in the mock test. I know itβs not a big deal but my heart fills heavy. I shouldnβt have lied but I canβt see them disappointed. It breaks my heart every time and not only does this but ti have to even listen a hell lot afterwards. Itβs not that I failed the test, itβs just that I didnβt do well. I am already anxious about writing the test and about the results, itβs so scary as if smth real and gonna happen. I donβt feel so good :(
same happens to me! Now I see only one option ~work how much you can and leave everything on almightyβ¦Donβt be scared coz things will get better !
he didnt helped me the last time :(
Hey there!
Itβs completely fine to be scaredof exams and the results. And we all face difficulties too. So itβs also olay to not score as good in mocks. So first try to understand that marks might matter right now, but they wonβt matter in the long-run (especially for mocks).
Then if you feel guilty about hiding it from your parents, try to open up. Itβs okay if they donβt understand, donβt get disheartened, we all have different opinions and beliefs. They might come from a different place.
If you think you should work hard for next time, start preparing right now. Make an easy flow timetable (including activities you love doing). Award yourself (like a chocolate) for completing your tasks. While studying keep a separate notebook and if you are distracted by some thought or work, write it down. This way you can get back to studying without the worry of forgetting your thoughts.
At the end, donβt pressurise yourself. Make realistic and achievable goals for yourself. All the bestβ€οΈ
tysmmm, thankyou,i feel better after reading this,its like yes it have been helped,relief ig
Hi there, I hope you are doing well now.
Believe it or not but I also actually once lied about my marks to my parents, it was because I was very ashamed of my marks. This behavior I believe happens when you are being pressurized by your parents. So, just sometimes relax and meditate so that you feel a little bit free. And I am glad that you found for yourself that what you did was wrong and will not repeat the same mistake. And I wish the best for you!