I left her for her own good but I still love her.
The fact that you left her for her own good proofs that you really love her. Iβm sorry about your breakupβ¦
I miss her. I knew she wonβt let this happen. I made excuses and made false claims so that it would be easy for her to leave me.
Iβm so sorry. Why do you think itβs better for her that you left?
We were in a long-distance relationship. Iβm way far, different country/continent. I donβt know when I may have met her. She is older than me as well. And Iβm not even sure that I could give her a good future. I didnβt want to give any false hope. I left her so that she could move on and focus on her future.
Oorvashi @osho
I can understand you situationβ¦ well Iβm also in long distance relationshipβ¦ Due to this pandemic he couldnβt visit me since March 2020β¦ We communicate through WhatsApp, Between and Duo π«π«π«
Youβre a really good person.
Oorvashi @osho
4 years long distance relationshipβ¦ Before pandemic I meet him once a month or two month onceβ¦ Even sometimes I feels very lonely and couldnβt share my best moments with himβ¦ A lot of arguement and misunderstanding but all of this bcx we miss each otherβ¦ I will not advise you to breakup and move onβ¦ But both of you can take a break and think about your relationshipβ¦ how to make it betterβ¦
How can you say it will be for her own good. What if she loves more than you? Donβt make reasons to leave always find reasons to stay.
I know she loves me, but not sometimes circumstances does not help.
What if she loves you too, and need you?
I know she loves me.
I hope whatever you chose does better for you both and itβs a mutual right? I mean she knows the reason of your leaving?
You said you love her and hence left her for her good. What good will it do to her if she is devoid of your love who claims to love her a lot? If you someone, then be with that person. Leaving someone can never be good for anyone, especially whom you love. Be with her. Sort out matters together. Discuss about the emotions with one another. Being together through thick and thin is what love is all about.
It was long distance relationship. Its been about 2 years I havenβt meet her and I donβt know when i will. Iβm not certain that if I can give her a good future. I didnβt want to give her false hopes. I left her so that she could see her future. π
How can you decide her future on her behalf? Itβs her future. Let her decide whether she wants to be with you or not. Let her decide whether she sees a future with you or not. As of you, instead of leaving her, try to do something so that you are able to give her a good future. Work hard not only for yourself but for your future life partner. At some point you will have to get a life partner. It may or may not be the same person but even then your responsibilities wonβt change. Give it a thought. Love can make ways a bit easier than they appear. Share your thoughts with your partner. Talk it out.