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@waxefi7029

I left her for her own good but I still love her.

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Anonymous
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The fact that you left her for her own good proofs that you really love her. I’m sorry about your breakup…

@waxefi7029
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I miss her. I knew she won’t let this happen. I made excuses and made false claims so that it would be easy for her to leave me.

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Anonymous
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I’m so sorry. Why do you think it’s better for her that you left?

@waxefi7029
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We were in a long-distance relationship. I’m way far, different country/continent. I don’t know when I may have met her. She is older than me as well. And I’m not even sure that I could give her a good future. I didn’t want to give any false hope. I left her so that she could move on and focus on her future.

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Oorvashi @osho

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I can understand you situation… well I’m also in long distance relationship… Due to this pandemic he couldn’t visit me since March 2020… We communicate through WhatsApp, Between and Duo 😫😫😫

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Anonymous
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You’re a really good person.

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Oorvashi @osho

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4 years long distance relationship… Before pandemic I meet him once a month or two month once… Even sometimes I feels very lonely and couldn’t share my best moments with him… A lot of arguement and misunderstanding but all of this bcx we miss each other… I will not advise you to breakup and move on… But both of you can take a break and think about your relationship… how to make it better…

@prasanth
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How can you say it will be for her own good. What if she loves more than you? Don’t make reasons to leave always find reasons to stay.

@waxefi7029
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I know she loves me, but not sometimes circumstances does not help.

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Anonymous
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What if she loves you too, and need you?

@waxefi7029
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I know she loves me.

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Anonymous
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I hope whatever you chose does better for you both and it’s a mutual right? I mean she knows the reason of your leaving?

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Anonymous
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You said you love her and hence left her for her good. What good will it do to her if she is devoid of your love who claims to love her a lot? If you someone, then be with that person. Leaving someone can never be good for anyone, especially whom you love. Be with her. Sort out matters together. Discuss about the emotions with one another. Being together through thick and thin is what love is all about.

@waxefi7029
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It was long distance relationship. Its been about 2 years I haven’t meet her and I don’t know when i will. I’m not certain that if I can give her a good future. I didn’t want to give her false hopes. I left her so that she could see her future. πŸ˜”

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Anonymous
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How can you decide her future on her behalf? It’s her future. Let her decide whether she wants to be with you or not. Let her decide whether she sees a future with you or not. As of you, instead of leaving her, try to do something so that you are able to give her a good future. Work hard not only for yourself but for your future life partner. At some point you will have to get a life partner. It may or may not be the same person but even then your responsibilities won’t change. Give it a thought. Love can make ways a bit easier than they appear. Share your thoughts with your partner. Talk it out.

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