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I know porn isnt soemthing i should be ashamed of, ive talked about porn use with my family but i cannot tell them how ive been dependent on porn. How im addicted. I need help but im full of shame that is holding me back. I havent told a single soul about my addiction and i feel terrible. I thought i was reading but i am ashamed. I hate porn i hate what it has done to me and i hate my addiction. I hate myself and i hate my life. I am ashamed, depressed, terrified, and i just want my secret to die with me but i feel so heavy.

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Anonymous

Hi anonymous
That is really sad. I also have that addiction and it really ruined me, I feel like this is really wrong, I don’t know what to advice and I don’t want to be a hypocrite, so all I could say is, I know time will help us heal, don’t worry, just know that there are a lot of us here with the same addiction, I’m not really addicted to pornography, I am with sexual doings, like masturbation and books and It’s really bad, I hope this will stop though and I’m still healing, I know time will help me, I hope it’s the same for you too!. Just know that all of this has an end to it 😃. Start with small steps! I know this couldn’t help you a lot but I hope that this could help you to start healing yourself too. xoxo

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
What is that making you addicted? The porn stuff shown isn’t real and doesn’t happen the same I hope you know that. What they show is either exaggerated or fake to be clear. They use fair girls so that people get attracted and dicks too so that people don’t feel disgusted.
So, there is actually nothing to be there and see it all day. Yes, for pleasures it can be seen once twice but not to an extent that you have to depend on it.

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Kira Barker @kira

yea, im sure they know its fake. and you can get addicted to it pretty easily, i would know bc i used to be addicted to it. you cant just say stuff like that without taking into consideration what they r going through.

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Anonymous

The porn itself isn’t addicting but the adrenaline it gives and the feelings u feel get addictive. I lose myself and its like all my stress and sadness disappear like most addictions may feel like.

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Kira Barker @kira

yea ik how it feels, i used to be even worse than u lol

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Simran @st1199

Hi kira, so my first question was asking the REASON for his/her addiction, and since I will NOT assume so I mentioned the facts which I am very well aware of.
After their reply, I would have mentioned and suggested the exact thing which I feel can help.

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Simran @st1199

Maybe this is because of the physical pleasures you are not getting? So, you find comfort through watching porn?

You have to set up your mind that this thing is ruining me and I can’t be over it. Search online and you will get certain methods so try those.
I will suggest to you when you get the urge to watch it, force your mind to resist it and it will be hard first but with time it will become a habit. Your subconscious knows right now you can’t stop yourself so it doesn’t try. But once you start telling your mind. it will work accordingly.

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