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I know I’m terrible person. I made a mistake, i was too eager to talk to him and it’s been years since I’ve seen him. i couldn’t control myself i made a fake id. I send him request and he accepted. i knew him personally but he has no idea of my existence. the only purpose of my fake id was to keep in contact with him but as one thing led to another, he texted. questioning me if i knew him. a lie led to another. and the conversations turned longer. i don’t know what impressed him but he started liking me which i turned it down knowing it will break his heart knowing its me. before he doesn’t know if i exist but now he will hate me. this is the terrible mistake I’ve done, playing with the heart of someone which is dearest to me more than mine. i don’t know what to do. enough damage has been done. last thing i want to do is shatter everything that can ruin our lives.

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skybroker

Firstly thank you for speaking it out.
It is a brave thing to do.
Secondly i m glad you know what is your mistake and you want to rectify it.
Accept in front of him.
I know what i m saying is straightforward thing but ultimately you have to say it in other way or another so better do it in simpler way.

Anonymous

it would have been easy if we’re you know in touch like the way with my fake id. We never talked. It’s just with time i develop crush on him years ago. i can’t admit to him because we don’t talk in real.

skybroker

You don’t talk in real?
Then what communication is there between you n him that is lagging?

Anonymous

What I am going to say might hurt you. I think that you are assuming that your boy is naiive and is innocent. But i guess he is playing reverse game with you, no one is dumb enough to fall for a fake id, even if he believes id is true, he seems desperate to have liking someone without even talking on call or video call. He already knows you and is playing around with you. You can directly cut the conversation and tell him that is fake id.

Anonymous

i guess you’re right. he might kniw it’s fake id but didn’t kniw the face behind. i guess i know what to do now.

Anonymous

Ya let’s see what happens.