Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

what should i share ? I just shared what i have done

You didn’t say what you did, you mentioned it was something horrible.

I asked if you would like to share what horrible thing you feel you did.

my son is not talking to me,not answering when i say something.

Isn’t there anyway you can talk to him, ask him why is he behaving that way? I mean, if he’s not talking to you, maybe someone else can try to convince him into justifying his behaviour, and then you’ll can together get a solution out of it?

he has already shared it with his best friend and his mother who happen to be a close family friend, since last two days she is also sending me messages explaining how he must be feeling frustrated and its normal for him to behave this way and i have to give him space.

all this is very embarassing and shameful for me…i m feeling very ashamed

i m not taking away the fact that he is hurt and angry but i have no one to talk to and i m feeling very lonely and sad.I never wanted to hurt him but i needed someone to be there for me.to support me emotionally

Maybe being a mother herself, she’s come up with a good advice. Give him some space, maybe he needs time to understand that you’ve got a heart and feelings too. Don’t feel ashamed, everything will be fine. Your son will soon understand how it feels to you as a mother, not being able to talk to his son.

i just hope so

As a mother, you’ve got great responsibilities on your shoulders, which requires a lot of emotional strength, and if you find this emotional support in someone, which helps you feel confident, and performing your responsibilities for your son himself, there’s nothing wrong. His emotions might have got hurt, but so are yours by his behaviour. What I mean is that no one is at fault. You just need to understand each other’s emotions, as everyone has individual emotions. It might take some time, but both of you will get over it. Do not feel ashamed, please.

Thanks a lot i m feeling a little better after talking to u

i just hope he comes around,his hurt and hate are actually making me feel more ashamed and sad

It’s a pleasure for me having made you feel better :)

Hey there, did it help giving your son his space?

i tried talking to him after 3-4 days.he has started talking but is still a little distant.will keep trying and talk to him in detail once he is a little comfortable.

That’s great!

I’m back here to ask if all’s good?

thanks a lot ,have been trying and will keep trying…i am sure he will come around

Dear ma’am,
First of all it is very imp that you shouldnot blame urself for anything…

Sometimes individuals are not wrong but the situation is wrong …

U will have explain him that you too are a human
N have some emotional needs…

God bless you
God bless him
God bless ur bond…

U pls take care of urself.
Stay calm n strong.