I just got to know about this site yesterday but I really feel that everyone is looking for someone who will love them n I did the same thing until it broke me into pieces I didn’t know where to go n what to do i was depressed as hell but when I broke up with my long term bf It some how creating this emptiness inside me.i never had lots of friends but I thought atleast I have some but then it came out that u were not my friends they used me.recently I just feel no one really knows me not even my family. I don’t know why m sharing this I feel m getting better day by day as m focusing on myself but sometimes when I miss him n when m crying I just can’t be able to breath n that scares me bcoz every time I cry the memory of not able to breath comes in my mind n then I start to struggle with breathing…what should I do I just lost everything…
You took the first step already without realizing. You opened your heart up, just for a bit though. I can relate with what you are going through. The mind can be made busy by occupying it with things/work etc. but all the memories start coming back when you sit at a place. Being busy will only deviate from the core but it certainly does help a lot. Be busy for some time, crying and feeling sad is also natural. It shows that you felt, you loved and thus, you cried. Believe me when I say that you are lovable and the one that you’ll be stuck with in life will fight with you, but will never forget to cook for you and feed you with his hands afterwards, just to see that beautiful smile of yours.
I hope the same I just think m an old school lover kind of person but can u tell me how can I overcome distance between me n my family atleast I should have them with me ryt
You can try to talk to your mother or sister since a friend of mine recently told me that girls share everything with their moms(not applicable to guys sometimes, cause we just keep our poisons inside not to affect those around us). I can only tell you one thing, crying is normal…remembering is okay and feeling sad is also okay. But once in a while look at yourself and try to see, “Is this the version of a person you really want to be in life. In future if your life-mate is stuck in something; will you be his rock or will you also start crying with him?” Till then I am here, you are never alone in this journey!!
hey Dear .
i know exactly how you are feeling . but you see , their are ups and downs in relationships and yes they hurt too. if you want to share something with me , you can . i wont judge you in any manner but help you to get out of it
god bless you
I just don’t understand I loved him like crazy n even his friends were jealous of him everytime I met his friends they used to say how u got a gf like her even he told me the same thing but still I was always the one who was begging for his attention n his time…and there was a time he didn’t have 5 min for me it just made me questions things we had n my worth…
at this moment maybe its something wrong with him . you know sometimes intentions do change when you get in a relationship. we think the person we are about to date is fine as hell but when we start dating them we notice changes because we didnt noticed them before. maybe his thoughts bout you changed. but listen dont worry. people do come and go and im damn sure there will be right person for you in this world. just try to do your daily chores and avoid the fact that you brokeup because if you will think about him it will eventually degrade you dear.
We were in a relationship for 9 years n m trying my best to not think about him but its really difficult
i know and as i said, everything will be difficult for you. but never lose hopes and im damn sure there will a person in this world who will give you enough time and attention and not only these but care and love as well. my only intention to say is its okay to be sad but not so much that will kill happiness inside you. And i know it wont be easy but give your best dear. GOD is always there with you and will be with you forever. and you can speak anytime with me. Iam here to remove all your problems and make you feel better. if you want we can move to other medium to talk in much better way but its on you if you want we can.
No I think I will choose to close this topic right now as talking about it is like reapeating everything in my head over n over again even when I talk about it I can’t seem to control my tears n feel bad but I will sure talk to u if I ever feel like talking to someone… thankyou for your time…I really appreciate that…
god bless you dear. my instagram id is deva._15
ever feel like talking? im always here okay! take care
