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I just don’t know if this site will be the right place for me to share this. In the outside, people know me as relax, cheerful, and positive person. I never share my problem to my friends and my family. I keep that shit for myself. And now I feel so sad. I can’t handle it. I just really sad until I feel like I can’t cry again. My life never be the same after I graduated from college. Adult life is so cruel to be honest. And now. Because of corona, my mom lost her job. My dad was died for a long time ago, and now my mom lost her job. It makes me sad because I recently having job this year after 10 months being unemployment after graduated. Although the salary is not really great, but for the first time, i love it so much because it was my dream. And after this situation happen to us, all my mindset about dream job is gone. Although I have a sister who have a great job and salary, but I know we will struggling next year due to this. Because she must pay bills for her new car and she is currently studying her master degree.

Am I greedy of being sad because my mom losing her job? I just think life is not fair for me. I just want to having fun with my salary, but now I will use some for my family. And I don’t know what will happened if my sister suddenly get married… All I think is find a new job with a good salary but it doesn’t easy.

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@kusum

Hello
I can totally relate to the statement that adult life is indeed cruel or ruthless…
Because there are responsibilities on us…
N financial responsibilities I can totally understand are cause of huge burden…
College life is best
But that is a phase
Once over it is over
Cannot be relived…

You are not being greedy
You are a young person
N you want to enjoy ur life
Absolutely nothing wrong with it
It is a very normal desire…
Pls stop taking so much stress
Or thinking so much about all this.
Pandemic has caused several problems to many ppl around
I am sure your mom is much more stressed than you on this matter
She will for sure search n get some other job
Till then you pls stay calm
Just try finding some genuine supplementary source of earning.
Maybe tutoring
Or anyother avenue
Investing in stock markets
Mutual funds,bank deposits.

All these are ways to increase the earning with your current job…

Also keep trying for new job…

But stay relaxed

Let not the stress take a toll on ur physical and mental wellbeing.

Give time some time
Have 100% faith in urself
All will be alright
Just keep working hard

More power to you.
God bless you.

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Anonymous

Thank you for the support! It means a lot for me :') God Bless you too

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