I just came out as a bi to my mom yesterday.
She said that i’m “sick”,what i’m doing is a sin and that this is just a phase. She also said that this is her fault idk how tf it is tho, then she started talking about her feelings and made it all about herself.
She also told me not to tell anyone else because it’s embarrassing and that i shouldn’t have told her about it either. I was literally bawling my eyes off yet she didn’t do anything to comfort me and kept tell me that i’m not normal.
What am i supposed to do now i feel unaccepted by my own mother and just feel horrible overall.
Hey what you did wasn’t wrong. Not to be mean, but it’s ur mom who’s kinda sad… it is definitely NOT a sin and you are NOT sick! Tbh it’s no one’s fault if you like some, right? I belive in you! You can do it!
Oh yea I forgot to mention, maybe your mom is just surprised and needs some time… I give you lots of luck!
what you did requires a lot of courage and im really proud of you for that
but remember that her opinion doesn’t matter
maybe like try to educate her or what
ever
and like even my mom makes everything abt herself when I’m crying and like i don’t know what your age is
but once u grow up and can be away from your parents like just move away from them and keep boundaries
you cannot live somewhere where you r not acceptable the way u are
and there are many ppl who would support you
and also I want u remember that you are acceptable no matter how they make u feel and
u did nothing wrong
Hey listen, you are amazing, awesome and beautiful.
Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise, be it your own mom.
And I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You didn’t deserve that stress.
Honestly, I’m impressed with the amount of courage you have to talk to about this to your parents.
YOU ARE NOT SICK AND YOU AREN’T WRONG.
You can never make orthodox folks understand this. So let it go. And never let them affect you.
LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU💜
