yarrow easton @yarrow
I just broke up with my bf bc he spent 40k chatting w online findoms in 2021 w his beneficiary money. In January of 2022, I caught him chatting w these girls as he was sitting on the couch next to me. He spent 2k that day and masturbated in our work bathroom (we are coworkers) multiple times. He had been doing this many days/nights in a row before I found out. He said he was a sex addict. I helped him find a therapist & program. This was 2 months ago. Yesterday, he started to go through disclosure and he said that he’s spent over 100k in the last decade, probably more, 40k last year alone. He said he’s into findom, forced feminization and forced bi. He said he used to be in therapy but his dr freaked out when my exbf told him he was having intrusive, triggering thoughts involving underage people - the one thing he has absolutely never ever in any way acted on. I feel like I may never be the same person I was before I knew all this. I feel like this isn’t even real life.
he is so messed up in the head girl im glad you got out of it before it got out of hand
Sanket @sanket
Don’t go hard on yourself, no one can become the same person again and no one shall be
Moreover, he has addiction and curing from which is very hard so don’t go hard on yourself
