I hurt someone unintentionally, I panicked and kinda annoyed her by saying sorry hundreds of time, and now some more misunderstandings got added to all this scene, she said she needs some time and dont want to talk about all this, and now I have this gut wrenching guilt that she is hurt because of me Nd now I can’t do anything to fix that. I have not texted her since a day now, and I’m stuck between should I text her and try again or should I give her few more days of self time and then try to talk to her or simply wait for her to text first . I’m scared that if I dont fix now then It’ll be too late and I’ll lose her forever, also I think I’ve annoyed her enough already and should give her some personal space. But I cant live this knowing someone is hurt cuz of me and all this is now taking a toll on my overall health , I’m not able to eat, sleep , work , I’m feeling suffocated and dont know what to do …
Let her be for a few days, trust me you dont wanna make this worse than it is. I’ve been down this road, just give her some space for a few days atleast
What if she dont reply after few days , should I bother her again , what if she never replies
See bro, as much as it hurts you cant make people stay in your life, if you make them stay forcefully it’s only gonna give birth to toxicity. Give it a few days, and then text her asking how is she and all, her replies would tell you the whole story. If she’s meant to stay, she will. You can’t force her. Trust me I’ve been there, i forced someone to stay and it didn’t do anyone any favours, especially me
Okay, I guess I have to bear this suffocation for atleast few days , before doin anything, I’ll prepare a small para stating my feelings and will let hrs decide from there.
Thanks :)
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Yeah, just tread carefully. If you really want her in your life just give her some space, it’ll also give you some time to think things through. Take care, man! Wish you the best :)
Thanks :)
You don’t worry
Everything will be fine
Your intentions are pure
That’s what we need
I hope so things will be good and someday we’ll sit together and laugh about it
