I hope everyone is doing good.
I just wanted to know the Best ways to get over an ex ?
Specially if it’s any psychological trick…
I’ve just a fresh breakup. Kind of a mutual one but he didn’t have much time to give to me and I’m taking a sabbatical in order to figure my life.
I know I should start with a new hobby or do anything… I just don’t have the energy to do anything and I honestly don’t have many things to do except watch Netflix and just lay in bed all day.
Days are getting quite depressing and I’m just crying and trying to get over him…. It’s been almost a week now. I really loved him and I know I have to feel the grief but I don’t have the energy to go through it.
So if any tips and tricks and dos and don’ts are there, I’m all ears.
Rishi v @xx_rishi
Time will fix everything 🦋
Go to your best friend. Tell her or him what you are feelings… sometimes holding things inside us makes us more weak. You keep in crying because you can’t express yoir feelings to anyone. Start to share yoir heart. Now you need a person not the webseries…
I’ve been doing that only
And honestly I don’t want to be this person constantly crying and just having so much anxiety……
Sometimes I feel like I’m burdening my friends. I know I’m not but it feels like that. I mean how much only can you feel and say.
Every time I feel gloomy I just can’t go to a friends and start crying
I just want this suffering to end. They all suggested me to find a rebound or go on dates. But honestly I don’t want to… I just want to not feel what I’m feeling and go back yo being happy
You have started over thinking… the moment you see something related to yoir self, then you start thinking of him and your memories. So it is better to avoid things which are reminding you of him. And yoir friends said correct. Go out. Don’t date anyone just start to go out and enjoy the life… he is not the only thing for you girl… the world is all about meeting new people and knowing them and exploring how life has different meaning to everyone… if you keep doing this, then you will lose what you have…so save what you have and lose what has gone…
In order to meet new people. I’ve to go out. And my parents are strict so yeah I can’t just go out anytime and meet people. Plus I’m from a small city.
My situation is just getting fucked. Don’t know what and how to do. Took the sabbatical at the wrong time.
I wish I could just do something for the entire day, get tired and sleep and don’t get to confront my feelings at all ……
I understand you girl… things will be fine soon… For the time you should talk to people here 😁😁😁😁
That’s what I’m trying. But u know every now and then something happens and I get all anxious and sad and I feel like I’m burdening people with my things
I mean yeah they are here and can talk very well. But I don’t want to talk about all these sad things…… I just want to be happy 🥺😞
First if all the person who will understand you will never think you as burden. Second you should not always talk about the same feelings… third you must try to be the old you in terms of doing things. All I can see about you is your care for others. You always give comfort to other rather than yours… but sometimes you should also get this😁
Yeah I understand what you are saying….
I don’t know I love myself but I don’t think it’s enough. I just want people who know what I’m going through and guide and tell me ways around it.
It’s so tiring and draining tbh….
You have to be patient. The situation you are going through is tough and after giving time to this moment, you will learn to handle it… some situations are only made for us… No other person can help and tell us way to get out of this… we have to help ourselves… stop overthinking girl. You are all okay… just make yoir mind that you are all okay… and for venting out. We are here all the time. We will never get tired of you…
Thank you so much for this
I feel a bit better after talking to you ❤️
I wish you will be happy forever… in case you feel alone, comment here anytime. I will be available 😊😊
