I have this friend who i met online. We have never met. We have chatted for nearly 3 years now. Sometimes i usedto block him bur he used to reach out through email or Instagram. Then we would resume talking. I was going through a hard time with moms death, academic failure and an abusive relationship. He was kind of there to listen.( at some point he even admitted that he kind of had a crush)
Either way he is married to his long time girlfriend now and he still wamts to chat with me. Sometimes he wants to send me makeup and lingerie which i find very weird.
Also keeps talking about cross dressing and bisexuality. I feel pissed off. I dont know why.
I just feel depleted after talkingvto him every time.
Yashaswini @199824
Hi, please just take care of yourself. It’s your wish to stop talking to that online friend. If you feel uncomfortable with it just ignore.
And start working on yourself take time and start working on your academics.
Journal your thoughts eveeyday, talk to your friends/siblings about how you feel.
It is Y O U R choice to do what is good for you. If this person is making you mad or uncomfortable, get them out of your life. Block him out every way you can. And forget about him. You can do it.😊
I do not have much experience with online stuff, unless if it is like game realated, but all I can really say is stop talking to him. Tell him that he has a wife, and ask why he is sending you all those weird things, and if he says, “Oh I think you are pretty” Block him without words. If he said that “Oh it is just a gift” Then just tell him that he has a wife. Then you should be okay :D
Sanket @sanket
Feels like he is being greedy. Do you have a hint about why he is still in contact with you? Those gifts literally clear out the things. If he is a good friend of your the sort out things with him.
Gradually disconnect with him.