I have this friend in my university and he is really nice and all but at the same time he had many relationships in the past and still his reputation is not that good. Meanwhile i am a girl who is kindda considered unapproachable in my class and have never been in a relationship. Suddenly this boy has started taking a lot of interest in me and talks to me on texts and shows his kind of hidden side of being depressed and all. But when we sit together with our friends he is back to his cool playboy type vibes. A part of me wants to just stay like this and see what unfolds but a part of me wants to stay away from him now. What should i do?? Like why this much difference in his personality!
Hemendra Jain @manifer
You know what
This is the type of person you need to be close with and understand what his true side is you need to discover why he acts or is really sad and depressed alongside you there may be a bigger reason behind it a story which he might have not shared with anyone but as he is being closer to you ask him his story try to understand him and try not to judge him and later on after getting to know his story wait for few days and check out if there is any change in behaviour if yes then that means he has shared his burden with someone close to him so please don’t leave him then but if he doesn’t change his behaviour after sharing his story that means he had lied about it
This is me sharing from my personal experiences(plural)
Its just till now i have been very supportive and listen to him very well but he is just persistent to make me his girlfriend. Its just weird that he says he wants me to fall in love with him etc. But this all is not just about him.
Hemendra Jain @manifer
See now this is a situation where you don’t want to in relationship with him but he wants you to be and he ain’t forcing you but he is meaning it
So now the answer to this problem is in front of you
You said you weren’t in any relationships before so try this
Try to be his gf for a month check if it works out
Don’t be physical or something but help to be a better human being by being his friend his supporter emotionally as well as mentally
Hey. I needed advice from you on this matter too. Its just that this boy he says that he wants to hold my hand and that he cannot stop himself from coming towards me etc. But at the same time he knows i am not comfortable so he just says this to me. He says he respects me and my views though. Now i have this in my mind that he just wants to get physical not at that level but kind of. What do you say is it all okay?
Hemendra Jain @manifer
Can you message me in my dm let’s talk there
I don’t have the connecting feature available yet
Cant copy the link and cant open it directly. Tried to type it but nope.
Hemendra Jain @manifer
Ok do a thing don’t come anonymously instead change ur username and msg me
