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Anonymous

I have started putting myself first and then all of a sudden I am losing people
I push them away so that they don’t hurt me. I don’t know kitna sahi aur kitna galat kar rahi hu mai. People usually say that I’m the problem aur mujhe dosti bana ke rakhni nhi aati but mai kya karu mai apne saath galat hote hue bardaash nhi kar paati please help me out and tell me if I’m wrong for building a wall around me to protect myself.

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Anonymous

I’m doing that but losing a lot of people. It could leave me with no friends at all.

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Hey! Don’t you worry, even I’m lonely now after having lost all friends (I tried my best to keep them, but they just had to betray). Can we be friends if you don’t mind? Like I know I’m a stranger to you, but I can give you my social media account for verification if you want and we can have small talks… Let me know what you think! (I’m a girl btw)

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Anonymous

Sure
I am also a girl
Pehle yahan connect karlete hain

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I’m not into that way of thinking, putting yourself first*

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Anonymous

Sorry i have some contrary opinion. My suggestion is BALANCE. Know and understand when to prioritise yourself and when to adjust. Extremes of each side never works. We are human beings and it is harsh truth that we cannot live in isolation, we require people around us to survive and feel loved. It’s always hard to find the balance but make sure you don’t go to the extremes. Take care.

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Anonymous

I do have friends but there are people who are constantly trying to put me down and I don’t think anyone would like being in that kinda friendship where they never take stand for you.

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Anonymous

Agreed. Don’t take bullshit of people trying to pull you down. They were never your friends, they are just snakes. Do follow balance for the people who are genuine, definitely believe your intuition for that.

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Well, I’m facing similar problems since a long time! Don’t worry, I’m here sissy, we can have each other’s company which I guarantee you would be genuine because, we’ve faced similar things! (I’m a girl too)

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Wanna connect? Please ping me then!

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Anonymous

Kabhi stand nahi lena mere liye
Hamesha mujhe hi galat samjh lena because mai straightforward hu taunt karna and above all they find it very cool and bohot late realise karte hain ki mujhe bura bhi lagta hai

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Anonymous

Well it’s fine if you keep yourself first and it’s good to build a wall for the safety of yours it’s indeed a good thing to do coz we can’t be like anyone can come break us down so a good decision for a good life.

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Anonymous

Yes exactly I’m just protecting myself

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Anonymous

Yeah in this today world it is required the most to do to protect ourselves

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