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Anonymous

I have some kind of relationship problem, not exactly problem but kind of dilemma, need someone to talk. Don’t reply if you want to judge.

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Anonymous

Hi…I’m here if you want to talk ✨❤️

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Anonymous

I am in relationship with my boyfriend from past one year and we love each other. We get sexual on text and have kissed.

We want to take this relationship on next step but I am afraid what if he left me after that like most guys do out there.

We talk almost all time, I know about everything about him and his family. He makes me feel safe and loved and don’t bring it up if I say no.

But I am confused, should I take this step or not

PS I am 19 yrs old, another reason I don’t want to have a physical relationship is society

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Anonymous

If you want to do this and have concerns about it…do have a conversation with him…ask questions and be sure if you want to do it.
And take your time if you are concerned whether you should be doing at this age or not. There’s no rush 😇❤️

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Anonymous

nope dont do go anything physical more than kiss ,hug ,cuddling ur just 19 and u love him he loves u know him more better in a way were is madlyyy in love with u am saying this only because i have expierienced it too but being physical is not needed much at this moment just be in love get this bond more stronger make him understand evrything in a clear way because u need to be ready for moving forward in this relation am saying this because u never know dont take a chance give more time to ur relation make the bond more stronger then think about this taking forward in relation therte are many ways right now getting physical at this age is no safe i hope u get it just to be more sure take time its not needed now:)

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Anonymous

I understand that but, physical need is as important as emotional need in a relationship, isn’t it? We already cuddle a lot and sometimes I want to take next step but I am scared(I don’t know of what)

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Anonymous

If you want to do this and have concerns about it…do have a conversation with him…ask questions and be sure if you want to do it.
And take your time if you are concerned whether you should be doing at this age or not. There’s no rush 😇❤️

Reply: I do talk to him. And once I said that I am afraid that he will leave me after getting physical, after that he said “No worries, take your time, love… I can wait for you” But I sensed kind of hurt in his voice. That was 3-4 months back and he never brought it up again. This time I want to take it ahead but as I said I am scared(I don’t know of what).

May “scared” isn’t right word

@akki1234

Tell me

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Anonymous

I am in relationship with my boyfriend from past one year and we love each other. We get sexual on text and have kissed.

We want to take this relationship on next step but I am afraid what if he left me after that like most guys do out there.

We talk almost all time, I know about everything about him and his family. He makes me feel safe and loved and don’t bring it up if I say no.

But I am confused, should I take this step or not

PS I am 19 yrs old, another reason I don’t want to have a physical relationship is society

@akki1234

Yeah if he can take your responsibility you can trust him but don’t trust on anyone and dont share your personal pic to anyone whether if you trust them 100℅ if he love you he will wait till you are get mature and responsible

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