I have not been keeping up lately.
I have never experienced things like this at some point I think I am overthinking but I don’t know. I have a friend whom I really loved. My friend used to tell me about all her problems, I was always there to assist her, in fact she used to tell me about her relationship too. I never revolted and paid heed to her. For the past year, I was in love with her but I confessed my feelings to her recently and things have got very weird. It seems like she has started avoiding me and treats me as a burden.She acts cold with me and tries to seculde me , even if she doesn’t do these things I have started taking note of it and it looks like she is doing it .My other friends will always choose her over me .It is quite painful but I don’t say anything.Even after confessing my feelings she did not for once helped me to get out of the loop.Looks like she took me for granted , I was nothing but a helper to her .I don’t know its just very difficult to get over her.I find reasons to hate her but you can’t hate the person who love the most.Lonelinees has engulfed me .
Hey You are not alone we are here for you. You can talk to us. I think she don’t think like this. You were the person who is their for her to help and she just want that from you. Maybe she can not think of this. That you will have start feelings for her. But I think something was like that she will talk but in your case she is just avoiding you and your friends are also doing the same thing with you. I am sorry but they are not your friends. You don’t deserve this kind of thing. Yes she take you for granted. Because she thinks like whenever I will be low this person will be their. I think you should make new friends and don’t talk to them. And you can make new friends here also. You can talk to me. Best of luck 😊
I can totally get this ! My best friend also just used me to fill the void created by his girlfriend in his life … and now when she is back… I don’t have any value for him…
The only thing i will tell u is … just accept and move on from her… ik it will hurt and require time… but it is the best way…u have to let go her… and trust me … she will regret loosing a friend like you ! Hope i helped !
The same thing happened to me, but I asked her out and she said yes but little did I know that the yes was a joke. The worst thing is she acts like everything is normal
