I HAVE NO FRIENDS, IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH MY PERSONALITY THAT PEOPLE DONāT STICK WITH ME. AT THIS POINT I DONāT EVEN KNOW HOW TO MAKE FRIENDSš«š£. NOBODY WISHES ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY WHATSAPP IS DESERTED, I HAVE ONLY 2 FRIENDS THAT ONLY MESSAGE ME WHEN THEY NEED SOMETHING FROM ME. I AM STUCK AT HOME WITH NO ONE TO TALK TO ME AND THIS IS EATING ME FROM INSIDE
I get you.Because even I am facing the same problem.
With those I feel like I wanna be friends with themā¦,either wonāt accept me as their friend or like meā¦so I stopped going behind people asking for friendship.Sometimes itās you who is responsible for not having friends and sometimes not.By the way we are not here to please anyone right.So donāt regret for not having friends. Thereās a long way to go and you will surely meet someone with whom you can share each and every feeling of yours.
In my caseā¦,
I was behind people to make friendshipā¦I mean I changed my behaviour to be around people.This you shouldnāt do.I realised it later.
If theres something which is meant for you it will surely come.You need to waitā¦thats allā¦
āfind an alternative for a friend.make a dairy your friend and write down everything you wanted to tell if it was your best friend.i understand its not thay easy.but you can do this small attempt which will keep you away from feeling lonely.
Thank you so much!!
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Hi,
Life has taught me one lesson
Ur post reminded me of that
So sharing it
āTHE ONLY CHOICE WE HAVE IN LIFE IS TO BE SOMEONEāS FRIEND
BUT UNFORTUNATELY WE CANNOT FORCE ANYONE TO BE OUR FRIENDā
Very few ppl are blessed to have genuine friends in life
To be very honest these days
Friendships are short-lived
If friendships are based on some purpose
Then once the purpose is over
Friendship too endsā¦
Each individual is unique
And so are you
It is not a problem with your personality
Pls donot think that wayā¦
You must just try ur bit
To be some oneās friend
But once u feel they are not interestedā¦
Pls leave itā¦
Because friendships and relations are always mutual and two-sided
U can just do your bitā¦
I know all this is very easy to writeā¦
I know it feels miserable
When you check ur whatsapp
Or phone expecting messages
N it is emptyā¦
It hurts ,it pricks
When on your birthday too
There are no messages
Yes it is very disturbingā¦
But thenā¦
It is your birthday
N you should try to stay happy n cheerfulā¦
Pls try to stay more busy
Do something that you like doing
Keep your mind occupied n engaged in some sort of work or hobbyā¦
Try to be more friendly to ppl in ur neighbourhoodā¦
You can try to befriend ppl of any age groupā¦
You may get involved with some sort of NGO
Take up some volunteering
Try to help ppl
Volunteering or working for NGOs
Is way to meet new n like-minded ppl
And it helps one feel really good.
You can join some classesā¦
Just try to stay more happy
Keep urself happyā¦
Take care.
Stay safe
Good luck
God bless
Dude thats my life. And I hate it.
