Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
I have feelings for one of my friend…yesterday we were playing Truth and Dare…and I asked him “if there is something he wanted to tell me but never told me”…he said that he do have love feelings for me…I felt happy as I do feel the same for him…but then suddenly he switched and said “He is kidding”…I felt so bad that I just stopped talking to him…
He said sorry today but I was so hurted that I was unable to talk to him…but not talking to him also hurting me at the same time…
I’m confused how to talk to him…? Should I talk to him or not ? What should I do ?
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
We are being together since 8 months…there are a lot of time when I felt like he feels something…but he never said it clearly…
Aman Sharma @lucifef
I think you should tell him about your feelings… But don’t expect what is his answer. If you don’t talk about your feelings it will hurt you day and night. So better, you should talk.
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
But how should I start now ??
Aman Sharma @lucifef
Think practically…
You both are best frndss right?
So if you tell about your feelings. He always supports you in a good way but if you are confused then take time, hangout with him and then tell him but don’t loose hope on true love
Aman Sharma @lucifef
But usko samjhadena ki tumhara jo bhi answer ho…(yes or no his choice)
Aap dono ki freind ship me effect nai aana chahiye…take decisions maturely
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
I had no problem with him liking me…I always respected his decisions…but he acts immature sometimes…like this joke thing…which just pissed me off
Aman Sharma @lucifef
It depend how do you know that he is joking
Hone ko to ye bhi ho skta hai ki vo bhi like krta ho but he is afraid of loosing you…
Agr sch boldega to kya pta aap kese react kro isliye usne apni feelings ko joke banadiya ho
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
We both are afraid of loosing each other
Aman Sharma @lucifef
Aree you sure about thatt?
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
There were a lot of moments where this thing depicted
Aman Sharma @lucifef
A person have pure feelings for a special person then these things depicted
Aman Sharma @lucifef
If you sure about that then there is no problem☺
Aman Sharma @lucifef
I think aapko bta dena chahiye use
Or ye bhi boldena chahiye ki hum dost to hamesha hi rahege phir chahe apka answer no hi ho. Don’t break the bond.
Because mostly yehi hota hai that you share your feelings and other person thinks that if he/she says no then you get hurt more so iss reason se bond bhi break hojata haii.
So me yehi kehna chahta hoo ki whatever the situation is don’t break the frndship bond… Give value to the emotions and bond…
And be positive
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
Thank you so much 🥺 your advice literally made me feel good 🥺
Aman Sharma @lucifef
☺its my pleasure…
Aman Sharma @lucifef
Vese to sbh acha hoga apke sth but if this doesn’t go well, then don’t get panic…
Araam se cool mind se usko samjhana
Sanket @sanket
And what if he got scared after confessing and do not want to lose you?
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
Getting the same vibes from him 🙂
Sanket @sanket
Accept his apologies and start bonding, there will come a point in life where you will cry for human interaction and the memories of today will only support you. Speak to him, he have had his punishment
Vaishnavi @vaishnaviiiii
Thank you so much 😊
