I have cheated on all my relationships so far, and I have to this date never feel guilty, I just don’t know what is wrong with my moral compass, cause I don’t feel even a bit guilty
And now I am going to get married, and I feel I am 100% gonna cheat and my thought process is sometimes I feel the need to be with another person when the person I am with is either busy or not doing good mentally/physically. I know something is very seriously wrong with me and don’t get me wrong I love everyone I am with, I guess just not sincerely enough? And I don’t think I d even feel bad if someone cheated on me sucessfully,but if I knew about it, I d just be like there is something I am lacking in. Is there anyone here who can make sense of my twisted mind?
It happens. Have met people getting married to 25th gf after 5 years of relationship and after getting married too they have cheated. But its a habbit. Once before the moment you cheat just look at the face of your real partner while sleeping behind. Just imagine him or her crying or his/her reaction when the cheaking is leaked out. That fear will stop you.
We always know smoking and drinking is bad for health but we do unless and until in younger days our parent’s fear make us stop it or wife or children’s or medical reports of a disease diagnosis.
Have you ever thought why u need another person? Is it only because of nonavailability or the insecurity of not approachable anymore ?
There are many things which happens to us in past which does things to our minds. It’s ok. U need to know y u do this. These are symptoms not the problem. Once u know the problem solution we can find. Right?!!