i have been wanting to talk about this since a while now, i hate myself and i hate everything about myself that’s why i’m the excluded friend in our friend group, everyone has their best friends and i don’t. It really makes me sad and lonely most of the time. People treat me like shit all the time and i am really sad about all these things since i guess 3 years, i really don’t know where should i go or what should i even do
Not @amyraa
Hi? I think we have the same problem here. My mum always asked me about my bestfriend but i just dont know how to say i dont hv any bestfriend but i admit that i have a good friends around me. I do hv a problem with myself. Sometimes i hate myself because im confuse with my own self. I can be toxic to others too. But whenever i feel confused or i hate myself i will try my best to calm down listen to any song while jogging. Yep im doing it alone since i dont really like to talk with people unless if i want to. I can be talkative person if i want too. So chill take a deep breath. U choose what u want too be. If u really want a bestfriends u need to surround urself with good ppl. I know how it’s feel excluded in a group of friends. I’ve been through that before. and it stop there until i choose to be myself to love myself more to appreciate myself more. Last but not least i still remember what my teacher said. " Find a quality friends dont look for the quantity" i hope it will help u. Ly!
Not @amyraa
Yea you were right until i realized i overthink a lot. I push ppl away and i think that was toxic. And the meaning of " i can be toxic to others ppl too" means i always to overthink in everything i do. I hate myself last year because i always feel like excluded in my group. And the reason why i choose to be alone because i always overthink bout how my friends are goin to treat me. I always thought that they will backstabbing me behind my back. Until i realized that as a human u dont need to put ur self in the future because u still dont know ur future yet. What can i say. Appreciate urself more. If ure alone it doesnt mean youre a loner. My biggest mistake was hating on myself and choose to push ppl away just bcs i feel like my friend always left me behind. But at the same time i feel grateful because with or without friends i still choose to be happy and appreciate myself more. ☺️ And yaa ohh im sorry im not really good in english so yea hehe
What you would need right now is good people around you. Uk, people who could motivate you.
Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...
Hey there!!
I know it feels so bad and neglected that you are part of a group but nobody gives you attention and you are mostly cornered.
But, this can never be a reason to hate yourself.
Babe, listen, she gathering which makes you hate yourself doesn’t deserves you, ever.
Start distancing yourself from people like them, because in coming future they can be toxic for you (I hope they dont).
Start enjoying your one company, start valuing that you have your parents by your side, who never de-motivates you, gives you reason to love yourself.
Remember one thing, always and always keep yourself first along with your parents, because at the end of the day you are going to be alone and the only people who will be there to support you will be your parents and everyone else will leave you.
So, start noticing who deserves your company, who doesn’t, because i know there are a hell lot of people craving you to be their friend.
All the Best
Take Care
