i have been trying my best to be best version of my self for my parents
i talk to them polityly
always listen to them
aways pass with good marks
completed engineering
working in good mnc
still i feel they are not happy with me they talk very badly with me they treat me worst i don’t know what to do i feel useless about myself don’t really understad that what they actually want from me
sometimes in front of guest and relative they proudly show that my daughter is an engineer but all alone thet treat me so bad.
i don’t know is there love or not bcz they took loan for my education they want me to be educated but they never concern about how i feel am i happy or not
Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...
Hey buddy!
Its ok. You just need some time to relax.
I guess you are taking a lot of pressure on you. Keep it simple and easy.
Everything is fine. Its just your mind that is a little tired and needs some rest maybe.
Every family is like that. Even mine.
I don’t talk to my parents though but i know they care about me.
Its the same for everyone. They care about you but they don’t show it.
That’s why we keep looking for a person who shows care for us.
Some are looking for friends, gf, bf or whoever can make them feel they are important.
And also its you who need to be happy and not anyone else concern. If you are happy with what everyou are doing everyone will be happy automatically.
Thats how you create you vibes, and effect others.
yes I guess you are correct
i used to be happy charming sarcastic girl
but now i feel lost
i do try to make myself happy but I am tired of everything
Ashish Sharma @thatsmeashi...
Even i am tired of everything. But you can’t give up on things so easily. Don’t you think so?
Giving up is so easy. And off course i guess you are not the person who gives up so early.
Keep going buddy!
Where are you from by the way?
Soorya @soorya
If they don’t take your happiness it’s not worth thinking about them anymore… It’s sad I understand your position but don’t ever think yourself as a failure… Not every parents are understanding about our feelings… And they are sometimes not even concerned about if it hurts us… But there is nothing you can do to make them understand yourself if they are stubborn and ignorant… Just concentrate on yourself and make yourself happy 😊… Believe in yourself… You are not worthless and you are not alone… Take care… Lots of love🤗 💗
