I have been talking to my senior for about 1 year now.until past 2 months he was very much into me but since his placement he got all weird and detached from me. I guess he needed me only for emotional support. Whereas i myself has been going through a rough patch since my grandfather has been diagnosed with cancer and i didn’t get a job for which i have been preparing since 1.5 yrs. And despite of all this, he has been harsh to me and said that “You didn’t get the job because you didn’t work hard, you aimed for the moon and landed on earth. Sun ka aim karti tab jaakar moon par pohochti”
Well people will find their peace in you sometimes… Its okay to get attached to people but you know sometimes they are just another lesson to u in your life. Right?
Now detaching yourself from them is your next target… take it as a lesson… maybe next time you’ll be more careful… and dont be afraid to commit mistakes…! Be okay…
It’s part of life and happens many times that are close one’s say something we don’t like. It can be the reason because you yourself are suffering from something and the magnitude of what he said increased for you. So maybe you need a little bit of introspection, do things you enjoy doing, start spending some time alone with your thoughts and that will give you clarity of what’s really happening? Has he really changed or it is just a temporary period from which you’ve to get yourself out.
I think he has changed and I feel used
