I have been talking to a guy since past 10 months. He came when I was going through a break up. We talked a lot and fell for each other. But didn’t end up getting committed. We came to a decision that we’d be just friends but idk why he keeps on creating sexual tension between us, despite me telling him not to do that
Although this seems a bit complicated situation but how does he create this tension…like by talking or doing something??
Just talking about his virginity and sometimes about mine too
ohkaay, I’m guessing you guys haven’t done anything yet then. Well its kind of important to do it with right person sometimes because later on it may happen that we start regretting our decision. People change, may take advantage…these things matter. On the other hand, our hormones might lower the walls despite these concerns inside us. So its better to have a control on things at all times!!
I don’t know if you will understand this or not, but let me be honest, as a guy i can definitely bet on it, if its the case, he is just playing things around. I am no one to interfere but you definitely need a check on him.
I too have a gut feeling that he’s just playing with my feelings
if that is so, girl get out of it.
Its wrong if you two fell for each other. If you too have sexual desires for him but your decision to not to be sexually close interferes it’s only thing keeping you apart . If this is not the thing, just be Frank and have polite talk with him and make him understand that crossing limits doesn’t make you feel good :)
You were going through a breakup. And he came into your life. And you fell for him cause he gave you constant attention, care and tendering and time when you needed the most. Maybe, only you fell for him. What did you give back for him to fall for you? Hm? Maybe, all long, he only wanted to get into your pants. Maybe.
But in the same case, you might be taking it that way. Maybe you are the one misunderstanding things?
Look, you can do one thing.
Confront him. Ask him what he meant. And set boundaries if he is the wrong one.
If you misunderstood, try not doing it next time.
And also, i think its better if you both dont continue this complicated bond.
You both fell for each other and are not committed and are friends?
Girl, no one can be friends with the person they fell for.
Now see, that would bring up a lot of complications and heartbreaks in the future.
Either go all in or don’t go at all.
Think wisely.
You’ll be fine.
