I have been struggling with many problems and resolved it myself and whenever I want to talk with my parents they ignore me and they want to listen anything I mean how can someone be not there for there children to listen but they were never there for me mentally, but they talk about some other person like how that person have faced struggling , like what about me then when I have been going through alot more than that , even they don’t want to listen to my problems , even I say they say leave it , so to whom I should say when you have no friends, I don’t feel like I am there children, when they can’t be there for children, they didn’t stand for me when relatives are criticizing, but I took stand for myself and been there for me still they didn’t speak for me … when self esteem is to be builded , they are lowing it, now I don’t feel anything at all as we speak for any important things … i cry like how does they can’t see my pain but they talk about others amd their struggling…
Hello, there. I am sorry to hear this. Must be pretty terrible to feel like the people who are supposed to be there for you - are not. Have you tried telling what you wrote here and explaining that you feel abandoned, and not heard and you feel like they put your needs aside. Try talking and explaining how that makes tou feel. Try having a serios discussion. Best of luck to you. Try confronting and make sure you tell them because they mau not realise that they are acting bad. For some people it is hard to get what mental support means and they need a little reality check! Sending you warm thoughts and hugs. Keep fighting
