I have been speaking to guy I had met on a dating app. We are on good talking terms, he is very nice and at times we flirt too. I was clear from the beginning that I donβt want a relationship as of now, because I was not ready to commit. He said we can take time as we just like each other , so we can see if things change for the better. Honestly, there are many factors because of which I donβt want to commit with him, but I also sort of like him and want to give myself some time. Today, during a conversation, I asked him that would he vanish one day, to which he replied that he may stop talking to me if his ex comes back and he is telling that because I am not into relationship and all. I felt a little bad, donβt know what should I do? Should I just ignore this as even I am not sure about him, or should I take this seriously because anyway I am investing my time and emotions on him
JYOTI @arreesha
He is giving you hints that u may commit to him so if. You have your own reasons of not committing to him and uh think those are imp reasons then just donβt stick on to him because this will hurt uh both just start spending a less tym with him.
Take that seriously girl because that implies he is still into his ex and you being with him doesnβt change that factor. If you agree for the relationship then also he remain attach to his ex and you will be hurt. Itβs okay to not commit anything and itβs totally fine if you are not ready for that. Give yourself time and try to understand the guy more and more if you feel that he is the one then only commit without any pressure.
thatβs better actually. Do you think I should spend less time with him?
Not really if you like spending time with him and if he gave you equal attention then no need to do that. Do what you like thatβs the rule of life.
Thanks, it was relieving
