I have been married to my hubby for 6 years. I thought i finally have a bestfriend who i can share my feelings with . But i was wrong everytime i tell him something he either doesn’t take me serious or says nthn is wrong with me and plus he tells his parents everything. Every tiny little thing. How am i suppose to do this for the rest of my life. I am so sick and tired of there whole shit. They be playing mind games. In laws totally out to ruin and end our relationship. Sometimes it feels like there is nothing left in this relationship. And we are only in it for our child. So frustrated.
true feelings @garryh
Talk to one who’s serious about listening your problems
Over the years i have lost trust and gained trust issues. I have trusted people and been betrayed many times. So don’t really have many people
aprajita @aprajita09
You can talk to professional people.There are helplines check out the helpline nos given on this site.It helps dear.
aprajita @aprajita09
Dear,first of all stop sharing with those who dnt understand or respect your emotions.Not necessarily that a life partner is our everything.Try to find ppl you can rely upon.Make your own individual identity we r nt defined by our husbands and dnt always need them to be our best friends.
Ramu kaka @ramukaka0608
I try and try but i have lost myself.
aprajita @aprajita09
As she is saying her husband doesn’t care for her emotions is it right to suffer silently.
aprajita @aprajita09
This is the problem in most of the cases we think it’s personal issue.I am not saying discuss with friends there r also professionals to whom one can rely for guidance and discussing ones emotions.
aprajita @aprajita09
I can understand that situation dear been there but see what is the best thing we can do in this,dnt rely on anyone for your happiness.Try to find what makes you happy.And for a child to learn to be happy
he/she needs a happy mother.Keep trying dear.I did the same and after 6 years now I see a hope.take care
I understand how hard it is to live with someone who doesn’t keep things to themselves. I would suggest to let it be and stop expecting that he will listen. Give it some time, your silence might help him realise, just don’t say anything and focus on other things in life: maybe your career, something you like, start reading, start with something to keep you busy. Hopefully he will realise. Just take care of your child.
Hmm can totally relate to you …
