Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

I don’t know how to get over him I feel lost he’s made me lose all my friends over him I have no one to talk to I don’t know what to do anymore I feel like I’ll never find anyone to love me or if I can ever love again

Arrrre chill don’t get too panic time come and go… Also people come and go this the rule of life just abhi pda insta pe baaki of the persons were for real they would have stayed but you can’t do anything for the ones who left you… You will find people, strangers are here don’t worry…

This is exceptionally toxic, I’m sorry. No one tells their partner that they’re worthless and won’t find anyone else if they loved them. Sounds extremely selfish and you need to leave him ASAP. He needs to get his priorities straighten out and honestly you’re better off alone than being with someone who does not value you.

I feel lost I feel everything I do or say is wrong I have feelings and I express if something I feel is wrong in our relationship I like to talk about it I can’t because he always gets mad for me trying to express how I feel. I literally have no one I had to pick him or my friends and I picked him. He just started talking to me about getting engaged by the end of this year talks about our future and then up and leaves “ he’s done this for 5 years everytime he gets mad” but now he needs time or a break whatever he calls it. Am I stupid for not giving him his break he wants I just couldn’t trust him I know he is going out doing things. I’ve been paying for his bills for the last 2 years and never was grateful for that

God I’m just so lost I feel useless feel like I’ll never get over this and I want to stop filling this pain

I don’t think he’s the one. U should break up. He’s dominating u. He’s being toxic

I know that in my head but my heart won’t let him go and I don’t know what I can do to get over him or try to heal from this I’m so so very lost I hate waking up in the mornings I hate going to bed I cry myself to sleep or I wake up feeling like my chest is going to explode I am so over life I know I’ll never be able to trust again

Sometimes for our benefit we hve to let people go. Don’t think abt what will u do after that etc etc. U will move on nd trust again. Time heals everything keep that in ur mind. If u need to talk anytime after that, I will help u if u need. But u hve to take the first step… It’s always hard ik but after this things become easy

Everytime I start thinking I’m doing better he has to call
Or I find out something and I’m just so confused

Now he wants to just take a break like what. Just stop playing games with my head I can’t handle it what’s true and what’s not true. I can’t even ask bc he just gets mad

Thank you so so much

Why u r afraid of him? U hve to tell him directly

I have I’ve told him exactly how I feel and then he somehow turns the table around. Or is like nvm it’s always something with you.

He called me last night and said we can just take a break I need my time I said well will it be the whole summer oh no but I just am not sure how long. I’m so confused because you went from saying it’s done you need space to now it’s just a break but you don’t know for how long bc the longer it goes
A- I’ll have trust issues knowing you went out and did something
B- we’ve been together 5 years you shouldn’t need a break after that long
C- it’s just going to help me move on from you. And i got told them move on. So I said if I don’t know something by Friday I’m moving on for myself. But then after i said that I started second guessing myself thinking he actually don’t care so i asked him we can just walk away right now bc if you were any man you would feel bad for what you did and he said that’s why he called back. and I tried saying I didn’t even cause the problem and he needed to man up and understand that he is in fault half the time too and he started to get angry.
So I’m in between thinking maybe I need to tell him if I hear from him I’m moving on but then I’m like I don’t have the balls I just wish he would stop and think no I really don’t want this to happen and him start trying and running after me for once

Only thing I’ve ever asked him to do was to treat me better never asked him to buy me things take me on dates or any of that just to respect me and treat me better. I’m doing way more then a girlfriend should by paying bills gas food and all that so you would think me asking for just a little respect he would jump on it

What’s your opinion take the break wait for his phone call “ if so how long should I wait for the break” “ or should I even trust him in the process”
Or bite it in the butt since it’s been over a week and move on. If so how or what do I even begin to say.
And if I said it was done so you think he would try to run after me if he sees me doing things

He’s done this a year into our relationship and I started hanging out with a guy and he found out and went and fought the guy after telling me he was done

And he also did this one other time said we were done and I hung out with someone and he fought him…

I want your honest opinion

All i got is u r making efforts from ur side but he didn’t. He’s being extra possessive. Don’t wait for his call or msg. U declare to him that u don’t want this further n u dont want him to interfere in my life afterwards as he did before.

U r hoping him to run after u becoz u loved him, extra cared for him. It’s ur emotions making u to tell so. But genuinely I feel it will be not right for u in future. There’s a possibility he can continue these things in future. Then u would hve no chance to turn back

If I were at ur place until now I hve blockee his no., no contacts, no social media nothing. Take into consideration that moving on always takes time. So u can’t wait much for making any decision

So I got the nerve to finally tell him I’m not waiting around on him after so long and it’s always been on his time when he decides to talk to me and his reply was

“I told you I want to just relax and find myself I’ve been thinking about us and how we can fix this we need sometime to realize what we want in life just relax and things will work out”

He goes from being done to a break has me blocked to me telling him I can’t do this to telling me that and then I told him our time has come if he was thinking about me he would have been trying and put the same effort this time as I have for ever and that we just need to go on and he never replied

Appreciate u for telling.

Look biggest problems in a relationship can be solved if the partners remain in constant talk, understanding each others problems and finding a mutual way

Then don’t wait for reply. Block him nd move on

I’m trying but everytime I start thinking I’m doing better then he comes and has to say stuff and then screws me up all over

Don’t listen to him naa. Avoid as possible.