I have been friend with a guy since 3 years. We were very good friends untill last month when we were drinking and having fun.
He was sad so we went to our garden. He was crying so I hugged him, he hugged me back. He was almost going to kiss me near my ears and I didn’t feel comfortable so I backed down. I thought I must be mistaken so hugged him back, at that point I could feel he had a boner and he was pressing it against me. I got super uncomfortable and confused so I stopped hugging him and went back with everybody. This all had happened in a duration of 45 seconds. I didn’t know what should I do. I couldn’t process if it has really happened or not. After 10-15 minutes he asked me to sit with him in the room and I could not say NO, he locked the door. I was scared and confused and in shock. I didn’t know what to do. But in the room he didn’t do anything, we talked. But I was not in a state that I could think anything else. All my friends and my boyfriend was in the drawing room, they all came in the romm where me and that friend was sitting. Then we all slept.
I didn’t tell this to anyone till 2 weeks then I told my boyfriend, he got angry and had a fight with that guy, which I never wanted. I just wanted to tell that guy that what he did was wrong. Now things hav got complicated. I feel I have ruined all my friendship. I think I should not have told this to anyone.
Nothing can go back to the way it was.
You did nothing wrong.
You did the right thing. Sometimes doing the right thing takes a lot of your energy. More power to you.
