I have an elder sister. The age gap isnt much, two and a half years. But i just dont feel that connection with her. She pisses the fuck out of me and its annoying. I feel bad for not having that connection and feeling this way for my sister, especially when all my friends are so close to their siblings. I feel like a horrible person for feeling this way.
Hey! Nothing to feel guilty about!
You just can’t expect to force a connection just because you’re related.
Connections automatically happen dear. But I’d suggest give it time and see how it goes with your sister and as for your friends not everyone has the same family dynamic and it’s okay!
Priyanka @jknm
it’s completely okay Me and my sister have age gap of 4 . I also have the same thing but i have started to respect the differences we have . She does the pisses the fuck out of me like me being totally cool about things despite being the eldest and she sees everything psychological wise and our arguments are too ugly but we both come out as strong opinionated humans who have formed opinion based on what information we have gathered through our experiences . sometimes she learns from me and sometimes I and I know one thing ugliest our fight are the more stronger i will standing for her if any body dares to mess with her . So relationship is dynamic and i take it just like normal thing it’s not necessary to be like bestie bestie sometimes things are not the way we want but i coexist with her and i know she is part of family so even though she will be complete annoyance i will be there for her if she needs me or if she herself says i need your help sister :P. But you just need to be calm and be in your space and do you thing eventually you both will have understanding that you will not try to cross each other in a way that things look ugly or irritating and it will surely happen one day
I feel the exact same way, my elder sister does annoy me a lot. Dw, I won’t hit you with the she is your sister she loves you. Instead, I’d just say everytime she annoys you take deep breaths, things will get bad but at least we can try to control them right?
